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    My Text Game Shit test failed - now what? (txts inside)

    so i met this girl out last weekend. we made out, got her #, have been txting all week...she wanted to hangout the next night but i couldnt. so i said we should go out to lunch. she said sounded good but she couldn't till friday b/c this was her test week. she said hopefully friday but she would have to doublecheck with her group for a class bc they were talking about maybe meeting at that time. txt her a few days later (today) to confirm lunch date. here is the gist of it:

    me: so tomorrow then blah blah?
    girl: i'm so sorry i found out today i have to meet with my group. i feel horrible but we have to finish it tomorrow because we have to present it for the next class. sorry"
    me: welll i don't know what to tell you. maybe tomorrow night?
    me: (30 seconds later on purpose) sorry forgot my friends are comin in town for mardi gras tomorrow night. i dont know. sorry
    girl: that's cool we can hangout another time. i'm just real busy with school like i said before. im glad a break is coming up
    me: mardi gras is real crazy so i cant promise anything. they leave sunday. maybe hangout sunday night?
    me: (1 min later) oops forgot sunday is valentines day lol. im bad with calendars...i think we should hangout before then. will you be out and about for mardi gras?
    girl: yeah i'm planning on it but i don't know what i'm doing exactly yet

    at this point, I don't know if this girl is being honest or just flakey. i mean, if she was trying to blow me off, why does she keep responding to me now and was all week? I decided to turn it into a shittest on my end so I could change the tables a bit. so then i said:

    me: nice. throw a shot back in my honor
    girl: lol alright will do!

    I thought that would get her to respond like "why arent you gonna be out" or something along the lines of asking me what i'm doing, but no...she like took my shittest and walked all over it haha. i haven't responded since then...doesnt really need a response.

    what's my next move? i'm out of ideas ha. i'm hoping i just wont respond and then she'll txt me on her own in a few days but i don't know. going with that plan also is 100% wishful thinking. so?



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    she's trying to gracefully avoid meeting you, but I'm not sure why. Maybe you didn't build enough attraction, or enough comfort, or something?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wisecat View Post
    she's trying to gracefully avoid meeting you, but I'm not sure why. Maybe you didn't build enough attraction, or enough comfort, or something?
    we actually continued to txt back and forth right after this. i don't really get why she would keep txting so much if she wanted to avoid meeting. it doesnt really make sense? i don't get it...

    she actually has been studying like crazy...said she was in library till 1am last night and then woke up at 5:00 and studied more for her huge test, then another huge test tomorrow, then the group meeting that replaced our lunch date, etc.

    not reallllyyy surre on this one. she wouldn't keep texting if there wasn't enough attaction or comfort, know what i'm saying?

    the next txts after btw were:

    me: okay but you better make it a blah blah shot or you can forget dedicating it to me
    her: what why that shot? is that ur favorite?
    me: yea that's what i was drinking that night we met so it only makes sense right?
    her: lol gotcha
    me: youre the worst studier ive ever met. dont you have a test tomorrow?
    her: lol i know yea i do i'm waiting to practice for it i have been studying a lot. had a big test today
    me: you're so hardcore i wish i could more like you
    her: o really not sure what you mean by that but i did stay at the library til 1am and got up at 530 to study so im running low on concentration
    me: lol poor girl. keep it up!

    i'm really confused here...any help?

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    Dude,

    To me,she's being friendly.She dosen't seem interested that much.Why when you told her about your shot would she not lie and say"yeah i remember that".

    Yes,you can plow like td would say.Too be honest i'd give her a rest for a month maybe.

    Peace.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby Dazzler View Post
    Dude,

    To me,she's being friendly.She dosen't seem interested that much.Why when you told her about your shot would she not lie and say"yeah i remember that".

    Yes,you can plow like td would say.Too be honest i'd give her a rest for a month maybe.

    Peace.
    she wouldn't lie and say that because i didn't take any shots with her. i had already taken shots before that. by the time i met her, i didnt drink anymore at all. so she can't really lie like what you're implying.

    also, why would she keep txting me back just "to be friendly?" she randomly met me out at a bar. we'll never cross paths again unless we decide to cross paths again. she doesn't need to be friendly to me as if we're in the same class or work and have to maintain a professional relationship. not at all, we'll never see each other again period in real life unless we plan to hangout, so there's no reason for her to keep being "friendly" to a stranger. dont you agree?

    i guess you don't know all the details. we made out several times at the bar last week, then she gave me her #, and i was in complete control of it. i stopped it, told her i wasn't that easy blah blah, and then we've been txting.

    she's at the end of physical therapy school. i think she really is super busy. this was a huge test week for her. i think just me keeping up the txting will help her to keep in contact with me.

    now, at this point tho, i'm done txting. not gonna txt her again. her test week is over after tomorrow, so we'll see if she initiates contact with me and tries to hangout for real like she said she would when her schedule is lighter in a few days. maybe after this week when school isn't controlling every minute of her day she'll have a chance to just sit back and think "i wonder what that guy is doing. havent heard from him..."

    anyone else agree with me, or Boddy Dazzler instead?

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    She was at the library till 1 AM? I think she's full of shit bro. I've never heard of a library staying open that late. Next her, and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by robochicken View Post
    so i met this girl out last weekend. we made out, got her #, have been txting all week...she wanted to hangout the next night but i couldnt. so i said we should go out to lunch. she said sounded good but she couldn't till friday b/c this was her test week. she said hopefully friday but she would have to doublecheck with her group for a class bc they were talking about maybe meeting at that time. txt her a few days later (today) to confirm lunch date. here is the gist of it:

    me: so tomorrow then blah blah?
    girl: i'm so sorry i found out today i have to meet with my group. i feel horrible but we have to finish it tomorrow because we have to present it for the next class. sorry"
    me: welll i don't know what to tell you. maybe tomorrow night?
    me: (30 seconds later on purpose) sorry forgot my friends are comin in town for mardi gras tomorrow night. i dont know. sorry
    girl: that's cool we can hangout another time. i'm just real busy with school like i said before. im glad a break is coming up
    me: mardi gras is real crazy so i cant promise anything. they leave sunday. maybe hangout sunday night?
    me: (1 min later) oops forgot sunday is valentines day lol. im bad with calendars...i think we should hangout before then. will you be out and about for mardi gras?
    girl: yeah i'm planning on it but i don't know what i'm doing exactly yet

    at this point, I don't know if this girl is being honest or just flakey. i mean, if she was trying to blow me off, why does she keep responding to me now and was all week? I decided to turn it into a shittest on my end so I could change the tables a bit. so then i said:

    me: nice. throw a shot back in my honor
    girl: lol alright will do!

    I thought that would get her to respond like "why arent you gonna be out" or something along the lines of asking me what i'm doing, but no...she like took my shittest and walked all over it haha. i haven't responded since then...doesnt really need a response.

    what's my next move? i'm out of ideas ha. i'm hoping i just wont respond and then she'll txt me on her own in a few days but i don't know. going with that plan also is 100% wishful thinking. so?
    Classic case of your number close not sticking because of time gaps and probably not enough comfort or qualification. Now that we have the nerd pickup terms out of the way try again in a week or two and if she flakes then next her.
    Everyones an expert--few are experienced.

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    robochicken, you're running good game. These other guys don't know what the hell they're talking about. No offense boys, you just don't see the matrix.

    Robo, this girl indeed likes you. She is just more focused on getting a degree than getting laid, as she should be. She's high value and she knows it. There is NOT a problem here. Txt her at will. As long as she reply's positively you are good to go.

    Robo, you are leading and she IS indeed following. Good game my friend. keep it up. Once the tests are done you should close this without any issues.

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    Where do you guys get this BS from? This stuff needs to end.

    Quote Originally Posted by Wisecat View Post
    she's trying to gracefully avoid meeting you, but I'm not sure why. Maybe you didn't build enough attraction, or enough comfort, or something?

    that's not true at all.

    Here's what happened...

    girl: yeah i'm planning on it but i don't know what i'm doing exactly yet

    her thoughts: ask me out damn it, hot guy it met

    me: nice. throw a shot back in my honor
    girl: lol alright will do!

    her thoughts: shit when is he gona ask me out?

    Quote Originally Posted by robochicken View Post
    we actually continued to txt back and forth right after this. i don't really get why she would keep txting so much if she wanted to avoid meeting. it doesnt really make sense? i don't get it...

    she actually has been studying like crazy...said she was in library till 1am last night and then woke up at 5:00 and studied more for her huge test, then another huge test tomorrow, then the group meeting that replaced our lunch date, etc.

    not reallllyyy surre on this one. she wouldn't keep texting if there wasn't enough attaction or comfort, know what i'm saying?
    exactly your insecurities don't add up. Look, this girl is just being a person, you don't have to go into panic mode because she had a priority over you. Everything is goin well.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby Dazzler View Post
    Dude,

    To me,she's being friendly.She dosen't seem interested that much.Why when you told her about your shot would she not lie and say"yeah i remember that".

    Yes,you can plow like td would say.Too be honest i'd give her a rest for a month maybe.

    Peace.
    she didn't lie about remembering what shot he took because it's a lie, even if you understood the situation (which later turned out to happen where she couldn't remember it), just because a girl isn't lying to seem cool infront by pretending to remember something she forgot about you doesn't mean she hates you. Some girls don't lie much.

    Quote Originally Posted by pussy hunter View Post
    She was at the library till 1 AM? I think she's full of shit bro. I've never heard of a library staying open that late. Next her, and move on.
    My school library was 24-7...


    Quote Originally Posted by Basically Yes View Post
    Classic case of your number close not sticking because of time gaps and probably not enough comfort or qualification. Now that we have the nerd pickup terms out of the way try again in a week or two and if she flakes then next her.
    I just want to say that reading some of your older posts had a lot of stuff on target and I liked them a lot, you mess up here and there but we all do, and I respect you.

    With that said *face palm* . The number close is perfectly sticky, the girl is distracted and ran into some scheduling problems. seriously. ugh



    Anyways I think the OP is on the right track with his own plan in his last post, follow that. It leads in the right direction.
    Love

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    I say the number close didn't stick because in my experience girls who are have enough comfort and like a guy will make somewhat of an effort to reschedule. The only saving grace is where she says "that's cool we can hang out another time", that's ok, but it's not strong. In my experience a girl who's been set up correctly sounds more like "I'm sorry I can't, but what about next week?" or "I have to cancel, what are you doing this weekend though?" I wouldn't say this is right on track but it's definitely not derailed...it's going "ok".

    I still think he should wait a week or so, continue the talking etc and ask her out. If she says she can't again without making a good effort to reschedule then next her. It can go either way at this point.
    Everyones an expert--few are experienced.

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