Thread: Leil Lowndes - Undercover Sex Signals

I found the original review lacking information and too much of a generalization.

Undercover Sex Signals in my opinion is an excellent resource when used in conjunction with other methods. When you first walk into a room you know exactly the first girls who would be more receptive to you. I have found you are able to speed up transitions, once you do a split second reality check on how her body language is responding to you(routines,kino , negs, c/f banter etc..) You gain a better experience understanding the signals she is purposely exhibiting to you and those ones that are instinctive that you can pick up on. And the list goes on. Then again, one can make a positive laundry list for any applied method or resource.

I suggest this book to others that are new to the game and also experienced individuals. As I have told others before, when you break everything down, the laws of attraction are the same, routines and tricks we do are merely vessels in order to reach your ultimate goal.

-Rio

I was browsing through this book in a bookstore the other day. It has some promise. My example: I had just been in a place where I saw a girl I sometimes run into and have spoken to. I want to flirt with her again. Anyway, I look at her this day and give a little 1/2 smile. She looks down. I feel it's a sign of rejection.
Anyway, I'm glancing at this book and he basically says no way it isn't. That is almost always what she'll do. I can tell u it made me feel like I'd keep going with that interaction and feel more confident.

i found this book 'alright'. don't get me wrong it is good for understanding female body langauge. but its written like a little kid, for 6th graders or something. having read many books before this, i found it way too childish!!! this book is definetly written at a grade 6 level...which really bothered me. when i've been reading comprehensive NeuroLingusitic Programing books i find it impossible to get through a little kids book like this...and the writing style really throws the validity of the material out the window. its hard to take seriously!
After all is said and done i found this book useful for only one reason...the pictures, and the 2 sentences underneath that described the sex signal. thats all you need to do with this book! look at it in the book store and write down the signals. dont waste your time and money. you're WAY better off reading TMM, VAH , or Magic Bullets ...they all have way more to offer!!!

This is the definitive work on pickup and dating theory, written by an acknowledged master of the game - a guy who’s TRAINED many of the new “gurus” on the scene!

this book is definetly written at a grade 6 level...which really bothered me.

No it isn't. I mean it's not a technical manual or anything but I didn't perceive as being written at a 6th grade level at all. And remember this book is geared for the mainstream dating audience not the PUA community. You're average guy out there browsing the dating books for men would find some good gems in this book compared to some of the other garbage on the shelves. However for others especially in the community you'd probably do better looking elsewhere.

Undercover Sex Signals : a pick up guide for guys, by Leil Lowndes is simply the best book on PU I have ever read.

The author is a female, an ex-model, actress, flight attendant, pr rep, and serial dater. She has spent decades studying, observing, and talking to HB's about what women do to signal to guys that they want them to come talk to them, and what works. It is very well written: clear, concise, and interesting. It is absolutely the Rosetta Stone for guys trying to 'read' women.

There are 26 universal 'undercover sex signals ' that women use in the hopes of getting a guy to come pick them up. She describes each in detail, gives the psychological reasoning behind them, and provides photographs. She then efficiently describes the five steps of the 'perfect pick up,' and why it works. She illustrates the point (that has been repeatedly proven via scientific studies) that men who have the most success are the ones who know how to read womens' subtle approach invitations. Her main theme is that rather than picking out the hottest girl in the room, we should pick out the hottest girl in the room that is sending us signals that she is interested. It is a great paradigm shift. She tells us the (agreed upon by most successful PUAs) fact that women judge us nearly instantly as either a hottie or a nottie, and from there on it is just a matter of playing the game .

She says something that I have long suspected: that women are constantly observant, and when a man walks into their periphery she sizes him up by his body language , style, and mannerisms, etc. Every HB pretty much decides before you even talk to her whether she would sleep with you or not. Now, this isn't set in stone, you can raise your status and change her mind by doing and saying things to convince her that she was wrong, and you can definitely kill her desires with one false move. But her point is a good one - why bother doing tons of work trying to create attraction that wasn't there when you can easily just approach the women that show they are already attracted.

One thing I have noticed after reading this book (and this is something that she clearly explains in it) is that women's tastes are all over the place. There are guys who are attractive to most women, but all men, unless horribly deformed or socially retarded, will have some women that find them attractive in a crowd. One thing that science has shown is that women are very attracted to men who remind them of the people who imprinted on her during her first years of life. Essentially, if you look like her dad, you are good to go. So this explains to me the mystery of why some extremely hot women find me physically attractive despite the fact that I am a clear 5 on the looks scale.

When you learn these undercover sex signals , you will be astounded by the number of hot ass females who show you attraction ! Women really are constantly turned on by us guys, and we don't even know it. You don't have to be Brad Pitt to lay a supermodel quality girl. You just have to be able to pick out the supermodel quality girl who thinks you are hot. Why, if there was a fully cooked, delicious steak on a plate in front of you, would you go to the trouble of killing, dressing, marinating, and cooking a cow because it is slightly more lean? She will prove to you that anytime you walk into a room full of people, there will be a portion who find you desirable. Of course, when Brad Pitt walks into the same room, his portion is higher, but you are so much more sexy than you think! There are so many more women hoping for you to seduce them than you would think. This book teaches you how to spot them, and then what to do to get them to come home with you, or # close.

This book deals with a more traditional kind of pick up than what has been popular recently in the community. Her advice to you when you spot a woman giving you an AI is to make eye contact, then match her smile, then walk up to her and sit or stand next to her facing the same direction she is, giving her plenty of time to evaluate you, and then non chalantly turn your head and compliment her on her jewelry or style, or something to that nature. Then, as she warms up to you, you simply mimic her actions: when she turns her torso towards you - you do the same. When she leans in, you lean in the same amount, etc. It is extremely practical advice that does not get overly complicated like many of the 'methods' out there. Her advice is very similar to Juggler's method.

I believe that, while not delving into some of the more 'advanced technology' that has come about in the community in the last few years, this book could easily teach an AFC to pull hot women each and every time he goes out. The ideas she teaches in it are so clearly written, so simple in nature, that after reading it, you feel like you finally 'get it' with women. Your eyes will be open to a whole world of sexual energy that women everywhere are putting off all the time. It's like suddenly learning a new language (well, that's exactly what it is)! One of the most useful points she makes is that when in public, with men around, no woman ever does anything by accident. If you look at her, and then she moves so that her dress strap falls down her shoulder, you know that was for you! If you say hi to a girl, and she walks past and scratches her back so that her shirt lifts up a little and you can see her fancy french cut thong straps, that was totally intentional (this is an example that my wing and I saw a couple of days ago). If you walk into a room, and an HB straitens up her posture and touches her neck, she's telling you to get over there and seduce her!

I got this book at Borders. You can find it anywhere, like on [ame="http://www.amazon.com/Undercover-Sex-Signals-Pickup-Guide/dp/0806527935/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1246061032&sr=8-1"]Amazon[/ame] (I don't get any kind of commission, just being nice by providing a link). You will see a familiar name on the cover, Neil Strauss quoted as saying "this book is the real deal. A classic guide in the community."

Read this book!

G'day gents,

I downloaded the audio book Undercover Sex Signals by Leil Lowndes from iTunes over the weekend and I've got to say I was very impressed.

One of my personal stickies is trying to read women's body language and work out if they're into you or not. If you're IOI reading game is suffering then this book is a great start.

Leil goes through what EXACTLY goes through a girls mind when you enter a club. She describes how to tell if a girl is attracted to you by looking at her from across the room, plus work out if she's into you when you finally go approach her.

It's a simple book to read yet very very descriptive. I particularly like the "20 IOI's" list a girl will give you to display sexual interest.

On Saturday night my wing and I hit a bar and I wish I had read this book before we had gone out. On reflection, I realised a lot of girls were showing signs of interest and that I was totally oblivious to their sexual body language . As a result I did not approach when I clearly should have.

This book has certainly helped plug a lot of gaps.

By the way, it's also endorsed by Neil Strauss and D D'Angleo.

Happy reading.

Runway.

I read this thread when it was bumped to the top recently, and as a result bought the audiobook, and have listened to it twice so far.

She packs a lot of content into the over three hours, and while most of it is centered on the 26 Undercover Sex Signals (USS), a lot of the discussion surrounding it and explaining the research or conversations that support it also touch upon many of the different concepts and techniques that are studied and learned by PUAs, without all of the acronyms and community jargon.

One thing that seems to be different is that while the community generally talks about creating attraction with almost any woman and you selecting your target and approaching without regard for the possibility of rejection, much of the material in this suggests that once you learn how to spot the women that are attracted to you (which almost all men can't do soon enough to react) you then pick from them, to increase your chances and decrease the chance of rejection.

I'd recommend it as both a first purchase for someone outside the PUA community, or as a resource for those in the community.

Such books are useful for everybody who wants to be a real macho or just have a beloved person.