Undercover Sex Signals: a pick up guide for guys, by Leil Lowndes is simply the best book on PU I have ever read.
The author is a female, an ex-model, actress, flight attendant, pr rep, and serial dater. She has spent decades studying, observing, and talking to HB's about what women do to signal to guys that they want them to come talk to them, and what works. It is very well written: clear, concise, and interesting. It is absolutely the Rosetta Stone for guys trying to 'read' women.
There are 26 universal '
undercover sex signals' that women use in the hopes of getting a guy to come pick them up. She describes each in detail, gives the psychological reasoning behind them, and provides photographs. She then efficiently describes the five steps of the 'perfect pick up,' and why it works. She illustrates the point (that has been repeatedly proven via scientific studies) that men who have the most success are the ones who know how to read womens' subtle approach invitations. Her main theme is that rather than picking out the hottest girl in the room, we should pick out the hottest girl in the room
that is sending us signals that she is interested. It is a great paradigm shift. She tells us the (agreed upon by most successful PUAs) fact that women judge us nearly instantly as either a hottie or a nottie, and from there on it is just a matter of playing
the game.
She says something that I have long suspected: that women are constantly observant, and when a man walks into their periphery she sizes him up by his body language, style, and mannerisms, etc. Every HB pretty much decides before you even talk to her whether she would sleep with you or not. Now, this isn't set in stone, you can raise your status and change her mind by doing and saying things to convince her that she was wrong, and you can definitely kill her desires with one false move. But her point is a good one - why bother doing tons of work trying to create attraction that wasn't there when you can easily just approach the women that show they are already attracted.
One thing I have noticed after reading this book (and this is something that she clearly explains in it) is that women's tastes are all over the place. There are guys who are attractive to most women, but
all men, unless horribly deformed or socially retarded, will have some women that find them attractive in a crowd. One thing that science has shown is that women are very attracted to men who remind them of the people who imprinted on her during her first years of life. Essentially, if you look like her dad, you are good to go. So this explains to me the mystery of why some extremely hot women find me physically attractive despite the fact that I am a clear 5 on the looks scale.
When you learn these
undercover sex signals, you will be
astounded by the number of hot ass females who show you attraction! Women really are constantly turned on by us guys, and we don't even know it. You don't have to be Brad Pitt to lay a supermodel quality girl. You just have to be able to pick out the supermodel quality girl who thinks you are hot. Why, if there was a fully cooked, delicious steak on a plate in front of you, would you go to the trouble of killing, dressing, marinating, and cooking a cow because it is slightly more lean? She
will prove to you that anytime you walk into a room full of people, there will be a portion who find you desirable. Of course, when Brad Pitt walks into the same room, his portion is higher, but you are so much more sexy than you think! There are
so many more women hoping for you to seduce them than you would think. This book teaches you how to spot them, and then what to do to get them to come home with you, or # close.
This book deals with a more traditional kind of pick up than what has been popular recently in the community. Her advice to you when you spot a woman giving you an
AI is to make eye contact, then match her smile, then walk up to her and sit or stand next to her facing the same direction she is, giving her plenty of time to evaluate you, and then non chalantly turn your head and compliment her on her jewelry or style, or something to that nature. Then, as she warms up to you, you simply mimic her actions: when she turns her torso towards you - you do the same. When she leans in, you lean in the same amount, etc. It is extremely practical advice that does not get overly complicated like many of the 'methods' out there. Her advice is very similar to
Juggler's method.
I believe that, while not delving into some of the more 'advanced technology' that has come about in the community in the last few years, this book could easily teach an
AFC to pull hot women each and every time he goes out. The ideas she teaches in it are so clearly written, so simple in nature, that after reading it, you feel like you finally 'get it' with women. Your eyes will be open to a whole world of sexual energy that women everywhere are putting off all the time. It's like suddenly learning a new language (well, that's exactly what it is)! One of the most useful points she makes is that when in public, with men around, no woman
ever does anything by accident. If you look at her, and then she moves so that her dress strap falls down her shoulder, you know that was for you! If you say hi to a girl, and she walks past and scratches her back so that her shirt lifts up a little and you can see her fancy french cut thong straps, that was totally intentional (this is an example that my wing and I saw a couple of days ago). If you walk into a room, and an HB straitens up her posture and touches her neck, she's telling you to get over there and seduce her!
I got this book at Borders. You can find it anywhere, like on
(I don't get any kind of commission, just being nice by providing a link). You will see a familiar name on the cover,
Neil Strauss quoted as saying "this book is the real deal. A classic guide in the community."
Read this book!
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