so i myspace messaged this chick with the dork opener hoping i would get at least a laugh. lol unfortunately she doesnt have a great sense of sarcasm and humor...any ideas on what to respond? Shes an HB 9.

HB 9

What you mean I'm a dork?! it's not very nice to judge anyone without knowing them
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From: Sensation
Date: Jan 11, 2009 5:50 PM


for a dork =P

how bout "lol aww i was jus playing with u... hot girls with a cute dorky side get an extra point over the one's with no personality anyways." then immediately cut this thread. or mayb transtion with something like "speaking of personalities... let's make sure you do have one... [cube or color routine]" get a little qualification going... sort of a pull with the comforting then push with making her qualify.

Negging online isn't good. I've found that one out the hard way. Just cut this thread FAST and transition into something else. Some HBs dont have that sense of humor and get offended really easy.

That's it. Negging online is risky. Either she has a great sense of humor and will take it as a joke or she will be offended right away and you're out. Negging needs other factors such as body language, voice tone and even a perfect smile to be properly delivered. You can't create that picture in words...

very true and good points. I messaged her changing the thread (color routine) and she responded showing interest. Thanks for the advice