Ok guys I will need some help here because I have never scored with any hot blonde in my whole life. Not even interent dating. This one has all the great pic shots and I say she is a 8.5 hot blonde. Funny thing is she msg me first. So please kindly read the 7 msgs below. I am 21 and she is 19 which is the age difference that I always dream of.

1.) From: HB
Subject: Hey HUN! Sent Date: 12/28/2008 9:56:23 PM

Hey, just wanted to say that i like your profile, and you are super cute! and maybe even sexy *blush* you seem like a laid back guy who is surrounded with positive support in life unlike a lot of people. Maybe would be nice getting to know you more.

2.) From: Me
Subject: RE:Hey HUN! Sent Date: 12/28/2008 10:36:46 PM

Hey there, you have a unique profile. I really like that you know you want in life which is great for a lady your age. I would like to know more about you, too.
Happy Holidays

3.) From: HB
Subject: RE:RE:Hey HUN! Sent Date: 12/28/2008 11:18:54 PM

so your name is ***? like this place lol

4.) From: Me
Subject: RE:RE:RE:Hey HUN! Sent Date: 12/29/2008 12:02:27 AM

Yup , I really like my name. Is ****your middle name?

5.) From: Me
Subject: RE:RE:RE:Hey HUN! Sent Date: 1/1/2009 1:03:30 PM

Hey ****, how is your New Year so far? Would you like to talk on msn and maybe we can have some stimulating conversation? Hit me back.

6.)From: Me
Subject: RE:RE:RE:Hey HUN! Sent Date: 1/4/2009 1:53:23 PM

What, playing hard to get already? Nice. Talk to me.

7.) From: HB
Subject: RE:RE:RE:RE:Hey HUN! (Contains Gift) Sent Date: 1/4/2009 2:48:58 PM

lol, yea this site just bores me sometimes and i never message people back right away.... until they say something like that




So these are the lines between us in exactly 7 days. This girl is one of best in look and career potential around the area that I live in and I am not even kidding. The area that I live in is full of single moms and fat girls. Anyway she stopped msg me after her 2nd post to me. Then I msg her 3 more times before she replied to me again. But on the last msg, she used points to buy me gifts. It is a pic of 2 glasses of wine, 2 pieces of white chocolate, a red rose and a pearl necklace. I haven't replied back yet because I don't want to screw up since this is a girl that actually think I am cute in the first place.

I do have a line for her which is:

Oh how cute, inviting me for a romantic dinner already? I don't even know if you are scary in person.

But I just can't think of anything smooth. I think she lost interest in me once, I don't want to do the same mistake again for msg her something boring or common type of response. And yes I want to meet this girl asap. But how should I try asking her msn again?

Thx a lot in advance for helping me, guys. I would like to know what you guys point of view on this one. And some examples of replying to her would be helpful for me also.

What do you guys think? I need some feedback asap lol.

Thx.

IOD, DHV, then ask her for her MSN and build comfort there. (asking for the screenname is a CT)

CT?

Just ask for AIM Screen name or MSN then get her number in first half an hour.

Over text suggest you should hang out, and setup day2.

Don't spend too much time building "comfort" and "attraction" online. Read my Post about Online game in my signature.

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Thx for the replies guys. I just read your post which was very in depth and well written. It shows that you are a player that have a good heart and you want to help out others. I am a lot of respect for you.

Now here the thing, I understand that I should not be wasting too much time on just one girl. But seriously man, I am in the Canadian Army and I don't work with any young girls. I do go out on the weekends, but the girls in towns around here are very bad quality. They are usually singles moms or girls that are pot smoker. I am an Asian guy that only likes white girls. And I do go up to girls but I only go up to 1 or 2 a night because the rest of the girls are just too pathetic to be my gf since I have a good career.

So for this blonde girl, she is a girl with good quality, so I don't want to screw up by being too needy. I already asked for her msn, so what is a good line to ask for her msn again?

Many thx.

Has she not replied yet or has she replied but didn't give you MSN?


build a little bit more comfort, ask her some questions, like where she'd like to travel, where she would live if money wasn't an issue, and what's her favorite desert, or whether she can cook?

Elicit value from her, see if she continues conversations, if she starts asking questions back, you can safely say "hey let's take this conversation to AIM/MSN, what's your addy?"


Or you can run with the comfort stuff over PM and then eventually get her number over several messages back and forth.

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Basically all the msgs between us are the 7 msgs that I posted on top of the page here. I msg the 5th and 6th msg. Well she did reply me finally but she didn't talk about msn on the msg which I asked her on my 5th msg. I still haven't reply to her yet her last msg was from Sunday.

Like I just want to know a good line to ask her msn the second time, I don't know if I should ask in a playful way like I don't care or should I ask like I hate msg back and forth, so use the line you gave me.

Yesterday I msg her back, she msg me right away. She said she is moving in 2 days so she is pretty stressful right now.

I msg her back to ask for her msn, and I am just waiting for her reply.