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    sexual ecalation on facebook - please share your expertise

    1) Messaged this cute chick I found on facebook.
    2) I know her face from the past but never talked to her in real life.
    3) We went through most of the basic stuff (workplace, university major, etc), in a series of "ping pong" messages in which additional information is added in each post with a followup question.
    4) I negged her sorta by calling her "ms. self esteem" when she responded badly to my comment about a good photo of her. I tried DHVing with my art skillz but facebook just makes it awkward...
    5) She keeps msging me every day in reply and asks me boring questions, however she is yet to add me to her friends list.

    Should i next her?
    Any good tips on how do I escalate/transition smoothly?



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    Guys please take a look at the RAW MATERIAL..
    Its translated for your convenience...

    me:
    July 5 at 1:12am
    Hey you used to work at XXX, didn't you?
    I remember you...


    Her:
    July 5 at 6:05pm
    Yea



    me:
    July 5 at 6:35pm
    So surely you remember me as well :]
    You were working with XXX, right? left quite a while ago..
    What do you do nowadays?


    Her:
    July 5 at 7:20pm

    hehe not THAT long ago, just a year and a half or so.
    did you work there as well? what branch?


    me:
    July 5 at 7:29pm

    still working there:]
    I was a young officer during 2006 .. bla bla

    BTW -

    This pic <link to photo of her in Germany> is a serious candidate for a profile picture, don't let it stay there with the rest of them!

    when were you in germany hehe


    Her:
    July 6 at 9:15pm
    Really? I don't remember you.

    To be honest this is my least favorite image in my album.. so it has no chance.
    I was in germany just a little after i left work..

    So.. when will you leave this workplace?


    me:
    July 6 at 10:01pm
    haha you don't really look like someone who can hate stuff, ms. self esteem
    otherwise how can you explain the fact it's still in your album!

    and besides this hat is cute.. did you buy it eventually or was it just for show off?

    Ill leave work in two years, but whose counting

    Did you start studying?


    Her
    July 7 at 3:00pm
    The hat is just for showoff.. I'll never go out with it in here. I bought a milion of other stuff though :\

    How come you work there for so long? have you been signing a new contract over and over? are you still in the same branch?

    I start (studying) the next year, graphic design.


    me
    (July 7 at 10:38pm):
    Graphic design? Could it be that you're more than just a pretty face (and a shopoholic) and have a soul of an artist?

    I always wanted to learn something like that professionally so that my works have some value (DHV). Maybe in the future, when work becomes boring.

    So where do you see yourself in the next few years, a Hi-Tec designer or a studio artist? and what school will you go to?

    It sounds like you're really concerned about my work, so (bla bla on and on about my work)

    but thats not so bad, i love my job, its good money and i have enough time for myself (note:uh oh i think i overdone it)


    Her
    Today at 6:49pm

    No, your work doesnt bother me at all...
    go ahead and work there for as long as you like
    i actually really liked it there
    at least until some other annoying people came over and bad bosses..

    yes, yes, I have the soul of an artist (not in a bizarre fashion though..)
    I got accepted to two schools, dunno which to choose from.
    i have no idea where I'm gonna be in 10 years time.
    there are so many possibilities...
    even the school has influences that actually.
    school X is more artistic, school Y is hitec...

    I didn't get it... you wanna study something in design/art?

    What did you study in university?


    me:
    Today at 7:05pm
    Who annoyed you so much? :P

    I studied.. bla bla

    I simply do some photoshop, I drilled your brain too much about it already so have a look. <link>



    Her:
    Today at 10:03pm
    wow very nice!
    you've got it!!
    so is this just a hobby or are you gonna do it in the future?

    many people pissed me off, but mostly was the attitude and the poor level of the time.
    this story is for some other time...


    how would you rate my performance?
    how do i stop it from lingering on and on and on without sounding needy ?

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    first off, based on your post title, i dont think sexual escallation[Seduction] is something your really run on line, its more for in person as you need alot of kino e.t.c before you can be in that stage..

    secondly, based on your post, its still quite hard to understand fully but i think you portrayed yourself as funny any witty and i think you transitioned her to attraction quite quickly, she was asking questions and intrigued in you but you then let it drag on too long and it turned into a bit of an interview

    based on the emails i still think you have her interested but you now need to move for a number close or a meet, but i would do it subtly like mention you already have plans to do something (related to your art or job) and shes welcome to tag along

    its less likely to put her on the spot and you can check the interest levels

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    got the # after 34 messages and a 2 hour facebook chat... this girl is exhausting..

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    ShrimpEr, you were the one asking boring questions.

    me:
    Hey you used to work at XXX, didn't you?
    I remember you...

    What do you do nowadays?

    when were you in germany hehe

    and besides this hat is cute.. did you buy it eventually or was it just for show off?


    Did you start studying?

    Graphic design? Could it be that you're more than just a pretty face (and a shopoholic) and have a soul of an artist?

    So where do you see yourself in the next few years, a Hi-Tec designer or a studio artist? and what school will you go to?

    Who annoyed you so much? :P
    Ut sounded like your conversation threads were about 2 friends fluff talking.

    miaddict
    (If you've never failed, you've never lived.)





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    Quote Originally Posted by miaddict View Post
    ShrimpEr, you were the one asking boring questions.



    Ut sounded like your conversation threads were about 2 friends fluff talking.
    I know, i absolutely suck at this..
    I have talked to her today on the phone today,
    we had a nice convo, mostly flowing (except for 1 awkward moment)... but after 40 minutes in, i wanted to setup a meeting and asked her "hey lets do something this friday..." and then stupidly added this "gem": "so what do you say?"

    and she breaks my balls and says... "i say that i'll talk to you..."

    FUCK!! all this time for nothing.. nexting :[

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