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    asked out too soon?

    I was just tryin out craigslist and I sent an email to K chick.

    Here's the transcript.

    Me: I think the pic is enough said (face pic attached).

    K: haha u think so/?? ur a man of few words . (attaches pic bitin lip)

    Me:Well it got you to respond didn't it haha? I'm actually not; it's just that
    99 percent of ads are fake sooo i'm not going to spend time writing until i know you're real. Ohh...and are you a biter ? That would explain the pic.

    K: Depends where you like to get bit..

    Me: body pic - enough said.

    K: have u ever been with a white girl


    Me: Yeah of course. I'm open to all races; I am very open minded = ). As long as you're a cool chick you're fine. How about you? have you been with an asian guy?

    K: i havent but want to i always think asian guys r cute..but thought they only liked asian women

    Me: Well its your lucky day huh?
    What part of the city you from?

    Btw i think its only fair to return a body pic for a body pic . Doesn't have to be half naked like mine but i'm not stoppin ya

    K: lol (attaches dressed body pic)

    Me: okay i see you went with the "non half naked" part which is cool too haha.

    You sound like a cool chick; you just might be worth knowing so i'll give you two choices. Tonight I'm going out to a private loft party in SoHo my friend is throwing. I got VIP so that rocks. You can come join me. Your other option; we can just meet at a starbucks sometime in the city and get to know each other there. Either way works for me.

    Doesn't respond.

    Tried again and sent an email the same night after I came back from the party

    Me:you missed out on such an amazing party! sucks to be you!

    And no response. Do you guys think that was way too early to meet up in real life? Do you guys transition from email to im or number first before even talking about plans?



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    I've used cheez avenger's quip to get the number, usually on the second e-mail. It's linked in my sig under online sarging.

    Women online get bombarded with e-mails, especially if they don't look like an orangutan. I think I would have suggested the you and she "take this lovely conversation" offline and then gotten her number rather than directly asking her out, but you can always try again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DeadEyeDick View Post
    I've used cheez avenger's quip to get the number, usually on the second e-mail. It's linked in my sig under online sarging.

    Women online get bombarded with e-mails, especially if they don't look like an orangutan. I think I would have suggested the you and she "take this lovely conversation" offline and then gotten her number rather than directly asking her out, but you can always try again.

    If she doesn't reply, keep in mind that there are several million pieces of ass out there waiting to meet you.

    Fish again.
    Okay that sounds good. I just wanted to take a chance cuz I figured a private loft party in SoHo where I had VIP would have DHVed and made her want to come out but i think it was too soon. I think I scared her away even though she did convey interest but I guess I didn't build enough comfort.

    I'll try again in a few days i guess.

    Do you think I should suggest a number swap or something else? i was thinking of sending another pic. Either I would copy the pose that she sent a pic of herself and ask her "Is my white girl pose okay?" and just make fun of her pic.

    Or I could send a pic with social proof. What do you think?

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    I learned something a while back.
    It could be a millionares party but if she has to hang out with your friends and doesn't know anyone some girls aren't comfortable off the bat. It is a big step for a stranger to agree on.

    Next time go for the # plan a date one on one. Way more room for escalating and a lot less chances for things togo wrong.

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    i'm guessin there's no way to recover from this. I just wanna know what to do in case this happens again later. Also, I know it's better to just move on but i'm very surprised to get such a hb on craigslist so i'm attemptin to salvage it one last time. Then i'm just gone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by limache View Post
    i'm guessin there's no way to recover from this. I just wanna know what to do in case this happens again later. Also, I know it's better to just move on but i'm very surprised to get such a hb on craigslist so i'm attemptin to salvage it one last time. Then i'm just gone.
    you sound very much like you have oneitis and as for your routine, you could easily sense the pickup part to it but i would also of said there was a bit of AFC, you offered it up to her too easily by sending the pic and asking her about asian boys..

    shes meant to want to work to get you remember, you have to be earned and she cant just be any old girl an she needs to know that.. there was no hooking with a "lets just be friends line"

    and as has already been said before, a number close with a one on one date would of been much better imho,

    move on, theres another HB9 or even 10 just a mouse click away

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    ^+1

    Dude if she msg's you back thats great. But don't bother hounding her or anyone else it'l just go nowhere.

    I never send two msg's in a row unless a girl says she wants to meet up.

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