Discuss asked out too soon? at the Online Game and IMs within the The Attraction Forums. Dating Advice.; asked out too soon?
I was just tryin out craigslist and I sent an email ...
I've used cheez avenger's quip to get the number, usually on the second e-mail. It's linked in my sig under online sarging.
Women online get bombarded with e-mails, especially if they don't look like an orangutan. I think I would have suggested the you and she "take this lovely conversation" offline and then gotten her number rather than directly asking her out, but you can always try again.
If she doesn't reply, keep in mind that there are several million pieces of ass out there waiting to meet you.
Okay that sounds good. I just wanted to take a chance cuz I figured a private loft party in SoHo where I had VIP would have DHVed and made her want to come out but i think it was too soon. I think I scared her away even though she did convey interest but I guess I didn't build enough comfort.
Originally Posted by DeadEyeDick
I'll try again in a few days i guess.
Do you think I should suggest a number swap or something else? i was thinking of sending another pic. Either I would copy the pose that she sent a pic of herself and ask her "Is my white girl pose okay?" and just make fun of her pic.
Or I could send a pic with social proof. What do you think?
I learned something a while back.
It could be a millionares party but if she has to hang out with your friends and doesn't know anyone some girls aren't comfortable off the bat. It is a big step for a stranger to agree on.
Next time go for the # plan a date one on one. Way more room for escalating and a lot less chances for things togo wrong.
i'm guessin there's no way to recover from this. I just wanna know what to do in case this happens again later. Also, I know it's better to just move on but i'm very surprised to get such a hb on craigslist so i'm attemptin to salvage it one last time. Then i'm just gone.
you sound very much like you have oneitis and as for your routine, you could easily sense the pickup part to it but i would also of said there was a bit of AFC, you offered it up to her too easily by sending the pic and asking her about asian boys..
Originally Posted by limache
shes meant to want to work to get you remember, you have to be earned and she cant just be any old girl an she needs to know that.. there was no hooking with a "lets just be friends line"
and as has already been said before, a number close with a one on one date would of been much better imho,
move on, theres another HB9 or even 10 just a mouse click away
Dude if she msg's you back thats great. But don't bother hounding her or anyone else it'l just go nowhere.
I never send two msg's in a row unless a girl says she wants to meet up.
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