Thread: Instant Messenger

I have gotten better at being able to open women up so they comment back. Almost to 50 % at times, which is I think pretty good, because they are probably getting bombarded with IM requests on match.com or yahoo.

I have a problem though. They will either have a couple of conversations going on at once or they will only be half paying attention.

Almost everytime now, that I can tell that they are into the conversation, I can get an email address or phone numbers. When they are only half paying attention, I can't really get any of the flirty vibe stuff going on to move on that.

In the past with mixed success, I have tried a couple of things. Ask an intriguing question, simply continue talking and talking, and doing absolutely doing outrageous things. Sometimes I pick little fights with them. Many times, I simply log off and try again later. Sometimes the rejection, will create more interest in the following conversation on IM. Just wanted some thoughts on this.

I guess what I'm asking is "How do I keep their interest, once I have" and I mean full interest focused on what I'm saying.

Originally Posted by hansrob00

I have gotten better at being able to open women up so they comment back. Almost to 50 % at times, which is I think pretty good, because they are probably getting bombarded with IM requests on match.com or yahoo.

I have a problem though. They will either have a couple of conversations going on at once or they will only be half paying attention.

Almost everytime now, that I can tell that they are into the conversation, I can get an email address or phone numbers. When they are only half paying attention, I can't really get any of the flirty vibe stuff going on to move on that.

In the past with mixed success, I have tried a couple of things. Ask an intriguing question, simply continue talking and talking, and doing absolutely doing outrageous things. Sometimes I pick little fights with them. Many times, I simply log off and try again later. Sometimes the rejection, will create more interest in the following conversation on IM. Just wanted some thoughts on this.