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I recently started messaging a girl I met through a friend ...
On the right track?
I recently started messaging a girl I met through a friend about five months ago (don't really know her like ever really hang out but we know of each other). I just wanted to get some opinions to see if I have the right idea. Here is the convo. (From facebook)
Me: I made a comment to her about how I haven't even been friends with her for a day and she is filling my homepage with updates.
Her: haha i did that cuz i was up at 3am this morning could sleep nothing on tv lol....so the internet entertained me for a whole 30 minutes lol
Me: Ooh okay I got ya. You sure did get a lot done in that "whole" thirty minutes. I mean they could give you your own link on the homepage for just your updates haha.
Her: well if u had alot of friends that they would also be on ur updates but lol i must be the only one lol
Me: If that was true you should feel very special. Actually after looking on your profile, its safe to say.....that you are my first lesbian facebook friend haha.
Her: i LOVE BOYS lol my vicki is my best friend so we go out lol dont have a problem with lesbians but in not...sorry im sure your upset lol boys love that kinda stuff
Me: Yeah I'm a little upset...I don't think I can even talk to you anymore lol. I was going to say if you did swing that way, we can hang out and you can pick up girls with me...BUT since you don't, I guess we can still be friends anyway.
Her: AW IM SO LUCKY THAT YOUR KINDA ENOUGH TO STAY FRIENDS WITH ME SINCE IM STR8 hahahaha hold up your lucky im friends with u....you should be able to pick up your own girls...i cant help u cant do it alone lol jk
Me: Whoa I see we have a smartass haha. I didn't say we could hang out...I have to make sure you aren't some kind of weirdo first...the internet can be a dangerous place lol. I saw you had a big yard sale event today, did you make a lot of money?
Her: yeh...not a weirdo u might be though yeh i made bank
This was over about a week long period. Any opinions or maybe ideas on how to continue this? I figure since I really haven't talked to her before that I need to spend more time with the online chit-chat before anything else. Thanks.
This just seems to be useless banter most of the time. I would recommend that you understand HOW the process works first. You are qualifying then releasing where there doesn't need to be a release as well, just not sure you are going anywhere with this.
Originally Posted by BMike000
Yeah, after reading it I see what you mean, I felt like it was becoming useless (which is why I posted here for advice) lol.Would you recommend I just leave this one alone and not reply or what?
I would push it 20% further and see what you can salvage from it. You've lost her either way so you may as well learn a little bit more.
Yeah, that's what I planned on doing. I didn't really know her so I figured it would be good for practice since I didn't care about the outcome. I know you said to push it further but what could I do next?
Try closing for her IM, then her number.