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    An odd one...

    Start from the bottom up

    She completely avoided the number pull...and I'll be damned if I am jumping through that hoop...


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    Why are your pictures set on private

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: me
    Date: Apr 1, 2008 8:23 PM



    Hmm, well I know we haven't "met" and you could be some online stalker... but I'm willing to take that risk. What is your number? My only rule is that you don't text me more than 20 times a day... 19 is ok though.
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    From: hb7
    Date: Mar 24, 2008 11:23 AM


    no sorry i dont have an IM

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    From: me
    Date: Mar 23, 2008 7:11 PM


    Hmm, I like your take on things... I hate playing myspace tag... do you have an IM?
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    From: hb7
    Date: Mar 21, 2008 6:43 PM


    Not unless you could join

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    From: me
    Date: Mar 21, 2008 11:24 AM


    interesting..... okay, let me ask you this...... Take the same scenario, but this time the girl is making out with another girl, and lets say she does this almost every time she goes out..... would you consider that cheating?

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: hb7
    Date: Mar 21, 2008 11:09 AM



    Of course thats cheating even if your a drunk bitch doing it still cheating
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    Oh. I was just curious. Dont worry it looks nice. While I have your attention, I need a females perspective on something...... Say, this guy is dating this girl, and she goes out with her friends, has a few drinks and ends of making out with a random guy at the bar..... Would you consider this cheating?
    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: hb7
    Date: Mar 20, 2008 11:40 PM


    Of course im not wearing a wig. what picture looks like that

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------

    Are you wearing a wig........... or is that your real hair?



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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicknock View Post
    Start from the bottom up

    She completely avoided the number pull...and I'll be damned if I am jumping through that hoop...


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    Why are your pictures set on private

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: me
    Date: Apr 1, 2008 8:23 PM



    Hmm, well I know we haven't "met" and you could be some online stalker... but I'm willing to take that risk. What is your number? My only rule is that you don't text me more than 20 times a day... 19 is ok though.
    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: hb7
    Date: Mar 24, 2008 11:23 AM


    no sorry i dont have an IM

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: me
    Date: Mar 23, 2008 7:11 PM


    Hmm, I like your take on things... I hate playing myspace tag... do you have an IM?
    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: hb7
    Date: Mar 21, 2008 6:43 PM


    Not unless you could join

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: me
    Date: Mar 21, 2008 11:24 AM


    interesting..... okay, let me ask you this...... Take the same scenario, but this time the girl is making out with another girl, and lets say she does this almost every time she goes out..... would you consider that cheating?

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: hb7
    Date: Mar 21, 2008 11:09 AM



    Of course thats cheating even if your a drunk bitch doing it still cheating
    ----------------- Original Message -----------------



    Oh. I was just curious. Dont worry it looks nice. While I have your attention, I need a females perspective on something...... Say, this guy is dating this girl, and she goes out with her friends, has a few drinks and ends of making out with a random guy at the bar..... Would you consider this cheating?
    ----------------- Original Message -----------------
    From: hb7
    Date: Mar 20, 2008 11:40 PM


    Of course im not wearing a wig. what picture looks like that

    ----------------- Original Message -----------------

    Are you wearing a wig........... or is that your real hair?
    If I were having this conversation I'd have assumed she would have refused to give me IM or #. You simply hadn't any IoI's from her and only seem to have elicited negative emotional states.

    Usually unless I'm getting statements that imply interest "e.g. you're funny" or getting lots of "lols", exclamation marks or kisses you need to build more attraction before closing.

    Ask fun playful questions that elicit positive emotions and give you opportunities to tease her and be cocky/funny e.g. http://www.theattractionforums.com/f...ad.php?t=53687

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    You tried to number close with no attraction, and no qualification. All you did was open, and used an opinion question to lead you to nowhere. You gotta add more attraction, and qualify quicker.

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    You seem to have no problem pulling the trigger lol. But like the others said no attraction. I pulled of the internet with an opener and two short messages the other day. You can do it fast but you have to gage her interest. Don't shoot yourself in the foot.

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    Ditto.

    You're using an opinion opener as if it is an attraction building conversation. What reason did she have for wanting to talk to your further?

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    Great words Fillibuster. You didn't close too soon, you just opened poorly and did nothing in between. You're a high valued guy who doesn't have time for people who aren't special to him. What reason does she have to be special to you? Why would you WANT her number? It's possible to close for a number in 2 emails, but not when you use the wig opener, which SUCKS. Do guys actually have success with that opener? Find a better opener man.

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    Not to mention the fact that you're trying to number close 12 days later!



    NEXT!!!!





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    Look far and wide--there are worlds to conquer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cheez avenger View Post
    Not to mention the fact that you're trying to number close 12 days later!



    NEXT!!!!





    -cheez avenger
    um wow I didn't notice the dates until you said that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sevant View Post
    um wow I didn't notice the dates until you said that.
    Sarcasm???
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    Quote Originally Posted by cheez avenger View Post
    Sarcasm???
    No. Just that that amount of time between messages makes the whole thing even wierder.

    No offense Nicknock better luck next time.

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