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    Any advice for finding a fwb online?

    I just started looking.

    So far, I've been using Craigslist, which is largely a waste of time (although I've been solicited by dudes and couples - - being watched by a cuckold isn't my thing).

    I also have been using Okcupid.

    I need advice on how to tailor my profile...

    Since I'm not looking for a relationship like a lot of other guys on that site, I decided to be upfront about my intentions (as opposed to being a guy looking for sex masquerading as a relationship guy).

    I didn't think it made sense to fill out to much of my profile in regards to all of the questions and "about me" section.

    However, I feel like an empty profile "doesn't get the fish to bite". Because it's hard to get a response from other girls who are also looking for sex.

    Any advice?



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    I've done this with a bit of success and I am currently in the process of doing so again...If you want to post a link to your profile I can critique and give you feedback. In general I wouldn't bother being upfront until you're actually on a date or if it specifically comes up. Also DO NOT simply say "hi", use a copy/paste opener, or go direct (unless she seems really extroverted). Filling out your profile and doing questions is a must (you should be looking at hers too and using it to make conversation) don't bother getting a number or facebook first unless she seems shy. I'd talk a little bit and if it goes well suggest a date. I'd also recommend using the search criteria to filter profiles looking for "casual sex" or "Short term dating" as this should weed out people looking for only a serious relationship. Happy Hunting!

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    Thanks toolist...

    I didn't put much in my profile... I didn't see what the point of mentioning "I like long walks on the beach" is if all I want is sex. But apparently those DO matter.

    I think I may go back to looking at Craigslist...

    I never liked Okcupid... It's an attention-whore's paradise. There's a bit of a conundrum I keep running into. The girls who are the most sexually open (that it matches me with) all have the same annoying shit on their profile.

    *Rants about patriarchy, gender-identity, womyn's* rights, (insert some other left-wing bullshit).

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    Those "annoying things" are your friend. These are what I look for in a fwb! Feminism shouldn't be a red flag and you shouldn't resent that kind of independence, some of them will be a little unstable but that's true of anyone. Learning a little of the lingo will get you a long way and most of the women I've met who are like this are smart and very good in bed. Don't be insecure about it.

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    Insecure isn't the right word. I mean more just don't let politics get in the way of your game. These girls are usually open-minded and fun and OKC is just a different (and better IMO) way of meeting people, it just takes a different approach.

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