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    Recovery needed - how to respond to this?

    Hi all,

    Met this girl over a week ago through a friend of mine at someone's birthday celebration/night out. We got on really well etc, I could tell she liked me and I quite liked her too. We were talking for large parts of the night and there was plenty of kino from me to which she was entirely comfortable with. A bit later during the night, I was quite proud of myself in that I actually went for it (something I don't usually do) and went into kiss her. I could see she was hesitant at the time so as I had my hand around her head/neck, I pulled her in to kiss her on the cheek instead of the lips, to which she then smiled. Therefore, she clearly knows what my intentions are and that I'm interested.

    Later at the end of the night, apparently she had been asking our mutual friend about me (this is referred to in our facebook messages).

    I added her on facebook the next day (as we had both been tagged in a post) and then a couple of days ago sent her a message. After a very positive couple of replies from her, I sent her this last night - I have put some explanations in brackets so the conversation makes sense.

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    I reckon Sarah (our mutual friend) told her lol and if the girls warned u about my lines I wonder what else u were asking...

    U really need to work on ur charm :P Though ur sarcasm does come naturally!

    Coq d'argent (this is a rooftop bar I went to on Friday which she was asking about) was awesome, it's becoming my local! Have u been since ur a City girl

    Weird to be back home and nice to see everyone, such a different world (I moved to London a couple of months ago for a new job)

    Not been to any Olympic events yet but yeah I probably should go as it's once in a life time. What u trying to go and see?

    By the way, fuck facebook lol, what's ur number?
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    She then replied tonight with this:
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    Haha don't flatter urself! We have more pressing matters to discuss,like hair and make up!

    My charm is second to none ...I can't help it if you don't appreciate my spelling of your profession (I work at a bank and she was saying I'm a banker with a W)

    Me? City girl? I have a soul thank you! Lol nah I have been there to take in the view a couple of times,always a gd spot to take the tourists!

    Why such a different world?

    I'm gonna go to the men's marathon on Sunday to perve on the athletes! Trying to get tickets for anything really, volleyball,hockey,athletics.

    I'm not allowed to give my number to strangers. Sarah says ur strange.
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    As you can see, she rejected my attempt to get her number. Seems there is still interest there but it could be better. What would you reply to her from here? Would you attempt to get her number again after a few more back and forth messages, tease her about not giving me her number, or just try and sort out a date on facebook asap?



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    Plow through, or look up some of Cajun's material to pass these shit tests. IMO, you should have gotten those digits up front at the party you were both at. It's like you took one step forward and TWO steps back, because she's in control of the frame now. You gotta reframe and get those digits, so look up Cajun's tips.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cheez avenger View Post
    Plow through, or look up some of Cajun's material to pass these shit tests. IMO, you should have gotten those digits up front at the party you were both at. It's like you took one step forward and TWO steps back, because she's in control of the frame now. You gotta reframe and get those digits, so look up Cajun's tips.
    Thanks, I actually did try and get her number near the end of the night and she kind of playfully refused. Anyway I replied to her yesterday got another fairly good reply to this so all is not lost. I will try and arrange a date after a bit more banter with her.

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