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    plenty of whales, ugh!

    Do you guys have any tactful ways of asking what a girl's body looks like before meeting for the first time? Is blunt best? I've wasted a considerable amount of time on what ended up being some fatties. Any guidelines you follow? I think a lot of these women pull the old bait and switch technique.



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    Look at the pictures first.
    If she has no pictures on her dating profile or they are all head shots only then more often then not she'll be hiding what's below the neck.
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    I should have clarified. I meant if you can't really tell from the pictures she has up. Can I operate on the assumption that if she doesn't show her body, she probably doesn't have a good one?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kjking View Post
    Can I operate on the assumption that if she doesn't show her body, she probably doesn't have a good one?
    I would, I'm sure there are girls on dating sites who are slim but don't like to show themselves on camera but for the most part if they have loads of pictures but they are only head shots then yes she doesn't want you to see whats below the neck.
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  5. Whats wrong with whales someone has to date them but may be we will leave that for the afcs.

    I would ask her direct saves wasting time and move on

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    A lot of the times if it's a shot pointed down at them, they are fatties. Also remember, these pics are all gonna be her at her best. I usually send her a pic once we get texting, "here's me at work without all my makeup on " you can then tease if she dosnt return the favor


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    First, now a day i don't wast time on girl with no, at least, upper body shot, so i can see her arm, abdomen...etc
    I use to ask girl to add my face book for that purpose if you concern

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    It's really hard to tell because all her pictures could be her like 1-2 years ago. Thats happened with me more than once.

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    If you build enough rapport (like after a # close) you can get her Facebook or just say she doesn't have enough photos posted.

    Check out FGAS they have lots of examples of the tricks women pull with their photos.

    I found a few tricks to spot the FGAS, taken from a video I found:

    1. If her thighs are visible in the downward angle shot, are they as big/bigger than her boobs? If yes, then she's fat.

    2. Does the upper arm skin fold over the forearm? If yes, she's fat.

    3. Are all the pics at a slight downward angle?

    4. Photos taken by other people are WAY less likely to be messed with to hide fatness.

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    Yeah I've fallen victim to this too many times.

    I know about the "no body shots, then shes fat" and "look at her arms to tell how fat she is".

    But sometimes I'll be undecided and think "maybe she's one of those normal girls who just happens to not take full body pics, and I don't want to screw myself out of a potential hottie".

    But almost always, (or always, I don't remember), they turn out to be overweight. Maybe just a little, maybe a lot. But overweight nonetheless. I suppose it's a matter of ME flat out saying "I've got a policy where I exchange full body pics with someone through pic message so we know there are no surprises. you know. no fake pics."

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