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    response to my opener was, :|

    Hello future PUA'S

    How do i proceed after receiving the following response?


    me: You're adorable. I'm adopting you as my little sister so we can drink cottees cordial and climb trees. Afterwards we can star in a commercial about how awesome adoption is and you can give a really sad face to the camera but then I come around the corner with a pitcher of cottees cordial and your smile turns into a party

    her: :|

    What the do i say to that? She didn't even say anything.




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    She didn't say anything because what you sent her is retarded.

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    Too much rapport building too quick.

    This is my problem as well when it comes to texting.

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    thanks for your advice and I don't need a description of the problem. I need a solution as to how to progress. By the way that opener was recommened by Cajun to use so there is nothing wrong with the opener. There is something wrong with the girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by classic dick View Post
    thanks for your advice and I don't need a description of the problem. I need a solution as to how to progress. By the way that opener was recommened by Cajun to use so there is nothing wrong with the opener. There is something wrong with the girl.
    Na, its that you didn't go through enough of the emotional progression model when with her in person.

    It's very hard to make up for lack of awesome game when you are with the girl through texting. In other words you're interaction with her might not of gone as well as you thought, and texting won't make up for that in most cases.

    Send her another shorter text, something easy to respond to. Try and make it less funny as well.

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    Neither of these guys know the context of what you're doing apparently.

    To the OP: I found that the adopting as little sister opener doesn't work as well as some of his others, so I don't really use it. It tends to create the response that you got. However, the commercial one is stellar and I've had success with it, but I think a problem you may have is using it on the wrong demographic of girls. I use that if they seem like they're creative (posting about writing, art, etc.) or if they seem really sarcastic/imaginative. Make sure sending really outrageous scenarios seem congruent with your profile (I'm sure it is close, since you purchased Cajun's book)

    However, if you think about it she could just have not responded at all, so there is still some worth to it. Send me a link to her account and I can try and come up with something to PM you (If mods allow links -- not sure)

    I know this isn't exactly what you were looking for, but I base a lot of what I say off profiles, so look at hers and maybe you can take it somewhere.

    Cheers

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    my bad I thought this was to do with text, not online game!

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    "there is nothing wrong with the opener. There is something wrong with the girl."

    That's your fucking problem
    Nothing is wrong with the girl in this situation.
    If your tactics don't work then you need new tactics.

    Pick up lines and memorized openers aren't some magic device that drops a hot chicks panties
    They're designed to get you a slight edge in opening more conversation openers to you and building a comfort level with her.

    My advice is to move on and talk to another chick

    In the future I'd advise using a more situational openers

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    You were doing WAY too much with that opener. It was one big run on sentence of like 100 different things and this chick is thinking "Wtf is wrong w/this weirdo? He doesn't even know me!"

    Your only recourse now is to respond with "Oh, I meant to say 'My name is John'." And even that's a weak attempt at making her forget the ridiculous opener, but it's about your only shot at "starting over" and getting anywhere with her.

    Lastly, it's not the girl, OR Cajun's line that was the problem. It was your DELIVERY of the line. I bet Cajun gets tons of success with the line because HE CREATED IT! So he knows how to say it, what tweaks to make depending on the girl, etc. You look like you just copy & pasted it hoping it would work because it came from Cajun. It doesn't work that way.

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    "damn autocorrect, I meant to say hi, I'm John"


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