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    Why does Girl sometimes ignores my Fb message ?

    Hello, I like a girl who was in my class sum time ago but the class is over now.So I can't meet her up in person. I am her friend on Facebook. the problem is that she sumtimes doesn't reply to my chats like hi or hello, but I can see her online for a long tym after that. The funny thing is that sometimes she does reply and then chats nicely for a long time... Can anyone explain this ?



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    I'll put this simply:

    If she's really hot, she'll have guys doing this to her very foten and so a simply 'hi or 'hello' wont cut it. At this point she'd read your message and not be interested as you havent appeared interesting.

    You need to change it up and make more of an advance on the first message with a joke or something substantial that will get her attention.

    At this point it seems like she isnt interested and is probably only replying when she does as she might feel bad about not doing so before. This is why you have to change it up and go for it by being super interesting, making her want to talk to you. She'll only talk to you if there is a benefit for her involved, just like in any situation. If someone told her to stand on a piece of dog shit she wouldn't do it as there nothing beneficial involved if she did so. However if someone offered her say 1000 bucks to do it, i think she might see standing on dog shit differently in this situation.

    You get what i'm saying? Its important to note that fb messaging is a hard game so don't expect this to be too easy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alonsobrit View Post
    That was a very good explanation ..

    Rather than chat, do inbox's. I very rarely use the chat system. Open the message with something like "Hey you just popped into my head.... Please stay out".
    Leave 10 minutes or so before replying to her messages, sometimes over 24hours (yes 24 hours!). Its very important after you do a very late reply that you DO NOT apologise for cutting your chat abruptly, just continue the conversation from the day before.

    As the poster above said, she is probably gettting messages from other BUT there is another thing.... She is probably away from her computer. When i have opened chat in the morning, i have sometimes gone to work and left it open for the day. I come back to see messages from women asking why i am not talkng, which i find very needy. #1 attribute of any PUA is aloofness, remember this.

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    Don't forget that with the new Facebook, if you get an inbox and you're viewing the site on a computer, it'll pop up as a new chat at the bottom corner (if you're signed in on Chat), so it may look like you're being chatted to, when infact, you're being inboxed.

    And equally, if you're viewing Facebook but not actually there, it'll look like you're on Chat (it'll show on HB's computer that you're there and ready to chat, so not replying makes her think you're ignoring her).

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    Quote Originally Posted by medius View Post
    Don't forget that with the new Facebook, if you get an inbox and you're viewing the site on a computer, it'll pop up as a new chat at the bottom corner (if you're signed in on Chat), so it may look like you're being chatted to, when infact, you're being inboxed.

    And equally, if you're viewing Facebook but not actually there, it'll look like you're on Chat (it'll show on HB's computer that you're there and ready to chat, so not replying makes her think you're ignoring her).
    if youre offline, it will show that you arent online.
    i Barely sign on to facebook chat. id have to be bored as fuck to be on fb chat

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