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    Online transitioning/replies

    Hey guys, I have never been very good at transitioning, and as far as practicing my game goes... I have little time to devote to it or practice.

    I had a chick open me on POF recently, and I would just like to get some good ideas for a reply.

    She writes:

    "Your profile was hilarious to read. Thanks for making me smile:-). You sound like the most interesting man on earth.. I bet your inbox on this site and all of your other email accounts are completely full due to your awesome. Good look on your pof search!!"


    I had just updated my profile shortly before I received this message. Apparently I did something correct with it to get a response like this one.

    I know this is at a very basic level, but any help I can get would be appreciated.



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    Firstly, I'd be interested in seeing your profile. Secondly...

    I'd go along with this almost roleplay like messaging. I'd go cocky-funny as she will clearly understand it whereas now and then some women will actually take cockiness to be arrogance. With that in mind, I'd go for something similar to:

    "You're right, I AM the most interesting man on Earth. It's a hard life at times but you've just gotta deal with it. I'm constantly having to delete messages and emails because of the awesomeness. I'm literally having to fight off a wave of people to get to work in the mornings. I don't think I need luck on the search but thank you anyway

    Seriously though, you're welcome for making you smile! What brings you to a site like this?"

    If she replies asking what brings you to the site, continue with the roleplay-like cockiness stating how you don't really need it but wanted the ego boost of constant messages. Then calm it down after that. After, you can try asking her the basic questions of:

    "What are your three best qualities?"
    and "What would be your dream job? And don't say princess "

    There's just a few ideas for you
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    Quote Originally Posted by D03 View Post
    Firstly, I'd be interested in seeing your profile.

    Thanks for the ideas! I copied my POF text from my OkCupid profile, so basically it reads like an OKC profile. You can see it here: http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprof...le_id=24441560

    I feel like it's pretty solid, but is maybe missing something. I also think I need to get better pics up.

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    "I am good at laughing at people's jokes."



    You are the funny person, they should be laughing at your jokes!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sonic172 View Post
    "I am good at laughing at people's jokes."



    You are the funny person, they should be laughing at your jokes!
    That's a good point. I changed it, so now it reads "I am good at making people laugh."

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    For anyone that is following this thread or is interested... I sent a message very close to what D03 suggested.

    I got this in return:

    Thanks for taking the time to email me back in your busy schedule:-). I am on this site to date and see where it goes from there. I don't have any good or bad expectations... Just thought it might be an interesting way to meet someone. What about you, why are you in this site? Being so awesome, I am sure you have a date every night:-)

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