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    match.com date doesnt respond to text, i text her again and she responds...HELP!

    So match.com date. We met at a restaurant for drinks. The date lasted 2.5 hours, she touched me, gave me a few IOIs, not a whole lot. It was pretty regular. Not going to lie, I am an above average looking guy that is very muscled (work out everyday). But she was hot. HB8? Nice body.

    Date was on wednesday night. It ended with it was nice meeting you, blah blah. I then text her saturday with

    me: How was your trip to NYC?
    HB: it was great, how was your weekend?
    me: great.....(blah blah, it was short, nothing serious, i just wanted to re-initiate contact)

    then on tuesday, i text her again saying "Hey, wanna grab sushi sometime?" <--this is where i messed up i think. NO RESPONSE.

    I wait a few days and on thursday i text her the following:

    me:How do you expect to rope in a cute guy like me without responding? Im all up for playing hard to get, but I dont wait much. When ur done being a nerd, please tell your NICER half to text me back. Byes"

    This was thursday night. Friday afternoon she responds

    HB: Hey, id love to get sushi with you, figuring out my schedule for next week so let me know what works for you. You should know, if youre looking for a super responsive text messager, im not your girl


    WHAT SHOULD I SAY AND HOW LONG SHOULD I WAIT? I got this from her at 3pm friday 4/22.



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    I wouldn't say anything to her until Saturday, if at all. I would also suggest calling or at least some kind of IM service next time you ask her out. Texting gives her a lot of power because she's not under any pressure to respond. I would let her be the next one to initiate contact. You had one date and it sounds like it went well but no sparks. Maybe she feels the same way. All you're doing texting her is letting her know that you're more into it than her. Just let is marinate a bit.

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    Pick up the txt and phone game book.. Seriously...

    Use this next -
    Sushi tonight at 7. Press 1 for yes, 2 for hell yessss, and 3 for I'm already there because I am stalking you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by t00muchfun View Post
    Pick up the txt and phone game book.. Seriously...

    Use this next -
    Sushi tonight at 7. Press 1 for yes, 2 for hell yessss, and 3 for I'm already there because I am stalking you.
    I like the "press 1, press 2" part because its funny, but i dont like the sushi tonight at 7 because she asked me in her last text what day works for you next week? And i know from our last date that she works a lot and is only available like 8pm and on. Since in my last text to her, i told her to tell her nicer half to reply to me, i thought maybe I could say something like:

    Oh hey there HB's nicer half! I can meet next week either on tuesday or wednesday. Does that work for you? Press 1 for Yes or 2 for HELL YESSS :P

    thoughts?

    and yeah i will def pick up the phone and text game, but it wont ship out in time to reply to this girl which is why im seeking help on here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bheckens View Post
    I like the "press 1, press 2" part because its funny, but i dont like the sushi tonight at 7 because she asked me in her last text what day works for you next week? And i know from our last date that she works a lot and is only available like 8pm and on. Since in my last text to her, i told her to tell her nicer half to reply to me, i thought maybe I could say something like:

    Oh hey there HB's nicer half! I can meet next week either on tuesday or wednesday. Does that work for you? Press 1 for Yes or 2 for HELL YESSS :P

    thoughts?

    and yeah i will def pick up the phone and text game, but it wont ship out in time to reply to this girl which is why im seeking help on here.
    It's a PDF. You'll have it instantly.

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    Oh hey there HB's nicer half! I can meet next week either on tuesday or wednesday. Does that work for you? Press 1 for Yes or 2 for HELL YESSS :P
    Skip the "Does that work for you?" part

    She will tell you if it works or not.

    If you know 7 pm won't work change it to 8:30 or a time you know will probably work. Say "Sushi at 8:30. Press 1 ........ blah blah"

    I'd prob drop the "nicer half" deal too. In a way it says "I'll put up with your shit, cause I'd do anything to be with you"

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    Quote Originally Posted by t00muchfun View Post
    Pick up the txt and phone game book.. Seriously...

    Use this next -
    Sushi tonight at 7. Press 1 for yes, 2 for hell yessss, and 3 for I'm already there because I am stalking you.
    Gold....simply gold.

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    You're lucky you even got a response. I'm pretty sure that there is no benefit to telling a girl that you're waiting. I don't care how a person says something: witty, sarcastic, whatever--it all means the same thing--you're into her. If a girl knows you're into her, and she likes you, she'll make a move. I've been in this situation countless times. The only solution is to always have a fall-back girl to keep you distracted, then say something random to the girl you went out with--something not pertinent to dating. Not something so forward. Just my opinion.

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    One hard and fast rule. NEVER send more then one text to a girl in a row without getting a reply. Makes you look needy. If they can't be bothered to reply to you then they can suck your gooseberries.

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