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Okay, let's take a second here. You used 2 openers. Your going to transition twice? no need, it's just more effort. And you were overwhelming her in the beginning. You wrote her way too much, without paying real attention to what moves had to be played. Too many questions, and you jumped through her 'hoops' a few times, by pushing her to answer the question. and you jumped again by answering it for her. Never do this. If she decides to not answer the question, blow it off, and move to something else, like a counter to her trying to be a smart ass.
Tip 2: if your going to get there opinion, you have to respect a woman. So i wouldn't use the word 'chick'
But you did good towards the end by changing to short answers, and making her wonder. It was a good recovery. But she was just wierded out towards the end by you teasing. It happens. But after all this i have to ask, did she respond to your goodbye?
I wouldn't try to recover from this. You had a good learning experience, now move forward and correct them, and the next romance will go through a lot smoother. The reason i would say to do this is because, Not all her switches have been flipped. She is confused, and both ends aren't sure of where in this is going.
So move to the next. Get away from thinking that there is only a few women out there and that you must do everything to keep the hot ones once you find her, and switch your that mindset to, that there is so many beautiful women out there anyways that it does not matter if things don't work out.
In the end it's up to you, and what you think is right
Good luck friend
Hope this has given you some ideas.
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thanks mate for your help...i am sure i will learn a lot out of this experience...at the same time, i did send her one cheesy line which she responded to awkwardly
Me: you seem like a really easy person to talk to so let me level with you. I think you are polite, have a big heart, and are very attractive! I'd really like the opportunity to take you out for some coffee with conversation or dinner sometime. I just have this feeling that you're a great person and I'd like to get to know you better
HB: Hw come in this conversations of mine one wrd or one liner reply u ve come to knw i m easy to talk n polite.....
thinking of some stunning reply to bring her down this time
Click delete and move on. She spelled it out for you.
on the next girl:
Mirror her investment. If she's replying with one sentence, do not reply back with three paragraphs. You can't look like you care so much when she does not. Her words were not "heavy". Her answers were vapid. Your response was "wow, that's so deep."
There's really not much more to critique than that, because that killed any potentiA interest really quickly. Was this over Facebook? I would reccommend you read the stickied topics before you go to the next girl. I would also suggest that you move from Facebook to okcupid or plenty offish so the next girl isn't as shocked by some random dude messaging her.
Short messages. Short. S h o r t
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