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    PoF: "xxx wants to meet you!"

    Hey guys,
    So I've heavily modified my profile recently and have started getting a few responses from various HB7s/HB8s and even went out for drinks with an HB7.5 last night (God it's been a while since I've gotten my ass out there, I sucked haha!)

    Anyways, today I got an e-mail from PoF with "xxx wants to meet you!".

    The profile was decent enough, another HB7.5 with similar interests as me.

    I sent her a message but I think I was a bit too AFC. I didn't use my regular hooks.

    My first instinct was to try to reframe her so I sent something like "Hey so you want to meet me huh? Well I'm not that easy, maybe we should get to know each other first." and then asked her something very dull about what she does for a living... I don't think this will work though, especially since the title was "Hey there" and I'm afraid the message will get lost in the noise...

    What's a good answer for these types of girls who are basically sending you a big IoI?

    I know negs don't work online, but I feel like calling her out on saying she's interested is still something to do. Am I right?



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    What else did the body of her message say to you other than "xxx wants to meet you!"? Or was that was just that? I don't know how POF works... I don't use it.

    But, if that was the only message from her, then you should reply and just say "Let's meet. Here's my number... text me and I'll tell you what we are going to do and when we can meet. I live in X city and I am usually free on weekends."
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    Yea, I think I should have been more direct.

    I will try to just send her another message since she hasn't replied.

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