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    Advice on POF, newbie to game

    Been trying to apply some principles of game online.Have had my profile up for about a week now and have had about 10 girls messeging me.One of them is pretty much in the bag but I've noticed something strange about the rest.They made initial contact, so it means they were interested to some degree, right.Exchanged a couple of emails and it now appears I'm the one having to make all the effort to keep them interested, they have hardly shown any by asking questions about me.I've dropped hints about meeting up but the answer seems to be "later babes".I'm starting to think a lot of girls on POF are just there for the ego boost and I have been wasting my time playing along with their hypergamous instincts (recently learned term).How do I tell if a girl is wasting my time even though she is the one who showed initial interest



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    Depends on what your saying

    Why don't you post a convo thread of what you are saying and we can analyze it and critique it. However, there are a few threads on profile construction and how to go from the first message to getting a number. An ebook I would recommend is "Insider Internet Dating" by Derek Lamont.

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    Post your convo and profile, and you'll get lot's of guys giving you the right advice. Too easy

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    The easiest way to see if a girl is wasting your time is to be direct with her. In my system, I qualify a girl over a few emails and then I let her know I am only interested in a friends with benefits type situation. Girls that are wasting my time will tell me that they aren't interested in that and they are interested in (whatever they say goes here).

    That's why my system is like this:

    first Email:

    Cold-read/Warm-read

    Humor

    Open-Ended Qualifying Question

    Follow-up emails:

    Humor

    Response/Relate

    Open-ended qualifying question

    Let them know what you want after 3-6 emails. If they comply, agree, or say anything other than a rejection of what you are looking for then give them your number.

    They will either give you their number, call you, text you, or VERY RARELY not-comply (just next them if this happens. They are wasting your time).

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    Unfortunately don't have the convos, but thanks will take the tips onboard.I'm seeing I need to go into this with a much clearer mapped out strategy

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    UPDATE

    Just number closed by applying some of ||||||||||||'s principles

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Web Womanizer View Post
    The easiest way to see if a girl is wasting your time is to be direct with her. In my system, I qualify a girl over a few emails and then I let her know I am only interested in a friends with benefits type situation. Girls that are wasting my time will tell me that they aren't interested in that and they are interested in (whatever they say goes here).

    That's why my system is like this:

    first Email:

    Cold-read/Warm-read

    Humor

    Open-Ended Qualifying Question

    Follow-up emails:

    Humor

    Response/Relate

    Open-ended qualifying question

    Let them know what you want after 3-6 emails. If they comply, agree, or say anything other than a rejection of what you are looking for then give them your number.

    They will either give you their number, call you, text you, or VERY RARELY not-comply (just next them if this happens. They are wasting your time).
    Sounds good,

    Any chance of a successful example of your contact strategy?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Verb View Post
    Sounds good,

    Any chance of a successful example of your contact strategy?
    There is an example on my blog.

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