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    Found a pof opener that's working for me, but!

    Ok after many failed openers I've gone with the following.

    Subject line. "I have 3 questions for you!" Sending them 1 at a time I think would encourage a reply as they are expecting 3 questions but only send the 1st.

    Then I follow with the "Are you high maintenance" "can you cook" "can you massage" in seperate messages. If I get "no" responses to 2 or 3 then I just tease a little.

    I'm sure you know the follow up on this one if it's all good it's like "OK, your kinda cute so I'm going to email a link to your profile to my mum and if she approves we can hang out"

    If I get "no" responses to 2 or 3 then I just start with "Oh your not really doing so well here but wait. Your kinda cute, so" then go with the "I'm going to email........."

    Anyway the but. I have one chick who was replying with

    1. Thats for me to know
    2. no.
    3. no.

    After sending the final message I get this one back.

    "Mommy's boy, not good.

    All the best with what your looking for"

    I'm racking my brains here for the right response without losing my frame.

    Maybe a lost cause, who knows.



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    Damn, I thought girls here were suppose to have a sense of humor....

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    If she doesn't get it step it up a few notches
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    Next her - what's the point of bothering with a humourless chump? or should that be chump-ess

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    I'm loving this one. Can't remember where I saw it, I think it was on one of Alex Coulson's interview vids. Can't remember who he was interviewing though.

    So far it has opened 5/6 with the other one still unread.

    Much better than my 15 mails per day and next to nothing responses.

    Maybe it is a shit test, maybe she's just not interested. I think she "got it" but just wanted to get to the 3rd question.

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    Quote Originally Posted by skypirate1965 View Post
    Next her - what's the point of bothering with a humourless chump? or should that be chump-ess
    Next'ed already, although I followed Skips suggestion.

    She's nowt compared to the little bubbly blonde I got fizzing atm. Although she claims no MSN

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    Quote Originally Posted by RC71 View Post
    Next'ed already, although I followed Skips suggestion.

    She's nowt compared to the little bubbly blonde I got fizzing atm. Although she claims no MSN
    She isn't shit testing you. She is just being a bitch. I've encountered a few who get all high and mighty like that.

    Get her number not her msn.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RC71 View Post
    Next'ed already, although I followed Skips suggestion.

    She's nowt compared to the little bubbly blonde I got fizzing atm. Although she claims no MSN
    No problem - email only can do it -if you insist get her phone

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    Just tried the opener on two girls; one went no where; got the email address from the other one after about 4 replies back and forth. Lets see where this goes.
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    Just my 2 cents.......


    Give a man a match, and he'll be warm for a minute, but set him on fire, and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.

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    messed with this a little. one girl totally flipped on me. called them typical guy questions lol..I figured when I mentioned my mom she would get it... You get stuff like that? Any good ways to disarm it?

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