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Ok after many failed openers I've ...
Found a pof opener that's working for me, but!
Ok after many failed openers I've gone with the following.
Subject line. "I have 3 questions for you!" Sending them 1 at a time I think would encourage a reply as they are expecting 3 questions but only send the 1st.
Then I follow with the "Are you high maintenance" "can you cook" "can you massage" in seperate messages. If I get "no" responses to 2 or 3 then I just tease a little.
I'm sure you know the follow up on this one if it's all good it's like "OK, your kinda cute so I'm going to email a link to your profile to my mum and if she approves we can hang out"
If I get "no" responses to 2 or 3 then I just start with "Oh your not really doing so well here but wait. Your kinda cute, so" then go with the "I'm going to email........."
Anyway the but. I have one chick who was replying with
1. Thats for me to know
After sending the final message I get this one back.
"Mommy's boy, not good.
All the best with what your looking for"
I'm racking my brains here for the right response without losing my frame.
Maybe a lost cause, who knows.
Damn, I thought girls here were suppose to have a sense of humor....
If she doesn't get it step it up a few notches
Next her - what's the point of bothering with a humourless chump? or should that be chump-ess
I'm loving this one. Can't remember where I saw it, I think it was on one of Alex Coulson's interview vids. Can't remember who he was interviewing though.
So far it has opened 5/6 with the other one still unread.
Much better than my 15 mails per day and next to nothing responses.
Maybe it is a shit test, maybe she's just not interested. I think she "got it" but just wanted to get to the 3rd question.
She isn't shit testing you. She is just being a bitch. I've encountered a few who get all high and mighty like that.
Originally Posted by RC71
Get her number not her msn.
No problem - email only can do it -if you insist get her phone
Originally Posted by RC71
Just tried the opener on two girls; one went no where; got the email address from the other one after about 4 replies back and forth. Lets see where this goes.
Just my 2 cents.......
Give a man a match, and he'll be warm for a minute, but set him on fire, and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.
messed with this a little. one girl totally flipped on me. called them typical guy questions lol..I figured when I mentioned my mom she would get it... You get stuff like that? Any good ways to disarm it?
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