you guys realize that if you keep your profile hidden on POF, it won't show up on search results but girls have no idea it's hidden when you contact them. so you can basically create as many profiles as you need and use whichever one fits the particular chick you're opening. when i had my profile unhidden i found that very few girls even looked at it, let alone contacted me, so it was basically a waste of time. but when i make contact i get a solid response rate, so no need to put myself in the public view at all. i have actually seen chicks i know on the site so i'm glad they now can't see me lurking.
quick POF tip on hiding profile