Have you ever opened a girl on PoF, and were stuck for something to talk about? Not sure how to ask her for her number? Well look no further...
Field Tested Comfort Building and #Close Routine THAT WORKS
Ok guys, after my recent success with online dating(thanks to this forum), I feel its about time to share a routine that I have perfected and had GREAT success with. This is a comfort building routine that has a number close routine built in. THIS IS NOT AN OPENER...I have field tested this extensively, but only as a comfort routine, and not an opener. I basically have combined a bunch of material from this forum(This is mostly based on the popular "Questions Game" routine you can read about in the comfort building forum) and arranged it into a successful routine. Thanks again to EVERYONE on this forum who has posted their material, as the basis of this routine is from multiple PUA's on TAF...
After finally perfecting the routine, I field tested it on 16 girls on PoF, and I have gotten 15 phone numbers! The 16th one wasn't comfortable giving her number just yet, and gave me her AIM and email address instead. So once again, this is a very successful COMFORT BUILDING/NUMBER CLOSE routine....NOT field tested as an opener.
OK. Here's how it goes...
After you successfully open an HB, send her this message:
Let's play a "get to know each other" game... It's called "Would You Rather?" and it's pretty self explanatory. I'll go first:
WYR: Blah blah blah
Blah blah blah
You can use a variety of questions, and I'll give you some of the examples I have used later...Important note: The first WYR question should NOT be sexual in nature. In fact the first few should not be sexual in nature UNLESS SHE initiates it...
After she responds, if she doesn't ask you a different question in return, send her this:
Good answer! It's your turn to ask me a question, dork;P p.s. No boring questions allowed!
OK, now you should continue this back and forth WYR questioning to build comfort. It is important that you make them interesting questions, and not boring questions. Keep her interested! If she asks you a boring question, tell her "Boring Question, try again". Once again note, do not escalate to sexual questions UNLESS she brings one up first(It happened with 5 of the last 16 girls). There are plenty of example questions that can subconsciously escalate HER to ask a sexual WYR question first...I'll give you a few examples later.
Now, after a few back and forth questions(4 different each is what I always asked before going for the number in my field tests, enough to build plenty of comfort) here's where the magic happens, the clutch of the routine so to speak...the NUMBER CLOSE...so, after a few back and forth WYR questions I'll send her this:
ok my turn:
WYR: Give me your number now so we can continue our game via text message
Make me beg for it and continue this horribly inefficient process of email tag?
(Hint, I NEVER beg for phone numbers)
Yep. That's it. It's that simple. It took quite a bit of trial and error to come up with the perfect wording...this is the final product of the trial and error, and the question I asked all 16 HBs in my final field testing. Note, it is VERY important that you don't leave out the "Hint, I NEVER beg for phone numbers"...It shows your dominance and alpha-ness, and it infers that if she's not willing to give you her number, then she will be nexted...I don't think I need to explain it much further, you get the idea...
And that's it! If she sh*t tests you(it happened with 2 of the 15 hbs), just plow though it. all I said with both of them is "Listen I'm not gonna beg for your number, so if you aren't interested in talking further, there is no sense in wasting both of our time, right? I hope this isn't the case, because you have done a good job at making me laugh". They gave me their numbers right after that. Boom. Done.
Best part is, you can continue this WYR game into your text conversation! No excuse for being stumped for something to talk about again! Oh this routine works wonders...and it's SOOO simple!
Here are a few examples of WYR questions I have used. Please help add some to the list. The more examples we all can come up with, the better!
As a second car/toy, Own a Jeep Wrangler, or own a Corvette?
Live in the mountains, or in a big city?
Spend a day on the water on a jet ski, or lay on the beach all day?
Be able to fly, or be invisible?
There's literally a million different question you can ask her that are non sexual...please feel free to add more!
Here are the questions to inspire HER to escalate to a sexual level:
Be the victim of a pillow fight, or Tickle Fight?
Get a full body massage, or relax in a jacuzzi?
Go skydiving or mountain climbing with a significant other, or Spend a romantic night with your significant other watching a sappy movie with dim light and candles?
etc...You get the idea...
And finally for the sexual questions, I just used some of the sexually charged questions from the multiple "Questions game" posts in the comfort building section in these forums...there are tons available.
Well I hope this helps, and please feel free to add some example questions to the list!