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Discuss Field Tested Comfort Building and #Close Routine THAT WORKS at the Online Game and IMs within the The Attraction Forums. Dating Advice.; Powers those are awesome questions and OP that is a great routine a million thank ...

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    Powers those are awesome questions and OP that is a great routine a million thank yous for sharing



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    No problem Slim...what questions did you ask?

    We need to get more examples guys! If everyone would give just ONE creative/funny question, we would have TONS of examples to use! Even if they aren't field tested, let's hear them! I'll field test them myself if I have to...

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    (This could be a start to getting more sexual)Wyr kiss a frog thats a prince or a man thats a pig ...

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    Busted already??????? How the heck to respond

    "pillow fight haha, and you seem cool also. Are you real? I'm weary of models haha...

    but WYR: Immerse your body in a bathtub of live****oaches
    or
    Dive naked, head first into a pool of of tabacco spit? haha

    I know this game all to well, I go for blood lol ttyl"

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    Oh wow, you found a creative one...I would probably say something like "Depends on who's spit it is...If it's my own, I'll do a back flip swan dive into it, but if its yours, I'd have to think twice:P"

    Let us know what you responded and any other questions she asks you, cause I'm assuming they are all intriguing...

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    Thanks! Really simple, but effective. I'm in the middle of exchanging WYR questions with a couple of girls. After you get a girl's number as described, how would you suggest transitioning to meeting up?

    Do you continue the WYR by text and then just give her a call?
    Do you continue the WYR and then use it to tell her you're going to call?

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    Hey great routine man,
    I'll definitely be trying this out.

    Do you think you can post a full conversation of you and a successful HB?
    Just so we can all get the feel of a little better.

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    Mindcrash: I definitely continue this game when I transition to texting. I'll go back probably 8-10 questions each before suggesting a meet up. Maybe its too much, but it has worked well for me...And yes I also use WYR to ask her to meet up. Usually something like WYR meet me for XXXX(whatever date activity) on Saturday afternoon, or next Wednesday? I'll give you an example of how I have led up to may latest meetup, where we met an upscale mall...

    After probably 5-6 Random WYR questions via text I asked:


    Me: On a typical Saturday afternoon, would you rather go shopping, or stay home and read a book?

    HB8.5: Definitely shopping! Would you rather eat fried food or grilled?

    Me: Duh, I am AMERICAN, so definitely fried! Not exactly a WYR, but...Man who has a shirt on with "cufflinks", Stylish or cheesy?

    HB8.5 As long as its not super flashy its cool...WYR hang out in a pub or a club?

    Me: I'm no stranger to clubs, but I think I prefer pubs better...I am loud and like to tell jokes and play games, so thats easier to do in a pub

    HB8.5: I'm more of a club goer myself. It's your turn to ask a question!!!

    Me: RELAX, I didn't have time to type it out, you only gave me 15 seconds...Jeeze! Ill ask you my next in 2 minutes, im kinda busy at the moment...as long as youstay calm:P

    HB8.5: Sorry I like this game and got too excitied lol

    Me: Ok, well I just bought a really nice dress shirt fromm brooks brothers for a wedding I have to go to soon...problem is it requires cufflinks, and I don't own any...hence my last question...

    Me: It's a good thing you are an expert at cufflink styles, because guess what? you are gonna help me pick out the perfect pair! So, WYR meet up at XXXX mall for "Operation Cufflinks" this saturday afternoon, or my next day off, which is tues evening?

    HB8.5: Oh I am, am I? Sounds like a fun little adventure Operation cufflinks haha Saturday works for me.

    Me: Good wear something stylish, bc I'll be judging your sense of fashion and overall coolness based on what you are wearing. I am awesome at judging books by their cover:P

    HB8.5: OMG I am all worried now!

    Me: Well be prepared to be MORE worried, bc it's your turn to ask me a WYR question

    HB8.5: blah blah blah

    (I then CALLED to confirm our plans for Saturday afternoon on friday night...along with a little banter too, it was actually the first time we had spoken on the phone.)



    That is just an example of how I asked her out. Notice how I set up my questions by asking her about shopping vs something boring...Her profile said she liked shopping, and I actually enjoy shopping/fashion myself(DHV) therefore meeting at a mall is a perfect date. You can talk to each other without much interruption, initiate plenty of kino, and play stupid games like "let's pick out an outfit for each other to try on" then find the most horribly ugly clothes you could find, and make her give you a fashion show. It's actually a really fun date idea...plus if it turns out she a mental case, you can leave whenever you want, there's not time restriction...anyways, I hope this helps you see how I transition from text game to asking her to meet up...Just find an activity she enjoys doing, and incorporate it into your WYR questions...It's really not that hard. BTW, I didn't really need cufflinks, just the idea I came up with to use as an excuse to meet up at a mall...I have done it twice before, it worked out both times. And I never did buy a pair of cufflinks any of those times haha...


    BTW, keep the example questions coming guys!

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    Hey man this is a really good routine,
    I've been trying it out and I've number closed 90% of the time on myspace.
    I'm sure if I was using it on a dating site I would be more successful but whatever. Here are a couple of my conversations.

    Me: Good lord you're gorgeous.

    Her: I don't know who you are but thank you!

    Me: Haha.
    Well then Let's play a "get to know each other" game..
    It's called Would you rather? And it's pretty self explanatory. I'll go first.
    WYR: Live in the mountains or in the big city?
    And why??

    Her: The big city. Why? Well, I already live in a big city and i love it. Also, I wanna be a fashion designer and the city is much more glamorous than the mountains (don't get me wrong, I love the mountains, but I'd rather live in the city).
    WYR: go to the movies or stay home and watch a movie on tv?

    Me: Oh wow,
    that was a great answer!
    I'm actually going to go to the Academy of Arts University for fashion and design or NY film academy for acting.

    I would rather go to the movies,
    bigger, better, and hardly any interruptions.
    But if it was a date then most likely stay home.

    WYR: Win the lottery, or become a superhero? ;P


    Her :Oh that's really cool. I'm into acting as well. Hi5.
    That's such an easy question. I'd rather win the lottery, duh. Why would I want to be a superhero when Batman's already around?
    WYR: eat at McDonalds or Burger King? (that's a very important question so think twice before replying )

    Me: Well I see you have good taste in careers,
    and also T.V. shows.
    I love Gossip Girl.

    And there's nothing super about Batman,
    Flash is the best. ;P

    And I would rather neither,
    I don't eat fast food lol.

    WYR: Be stranded on an island alone or with someone you hate.

    Her: LOL Who doesn't love Gossip Girl?
    My favourite character is Blair (that was pretty obvious) and my friends say we look alike 'cause we dress alike and have similar personalities (I'm not a total bitch but I have my moments..) Who's your favourite?
    Wrong answer! McDonalds = (: I'm trying not to eat fast food tho.
    Neither, but if I HAD to choose.. I think I'd rather be with someone I hate, 'cause at least I'd have someone to argue with.
    WYR: go to a club or a house party?
    Oh, and Flash? Give me a break!

    Me: Lol.
    My favorite is definitely Chuck Bass,
    I practice his lines in front of the mirror. Great character and great actor.
    And I knew you were going to say Mcdonalds.

    And I can't even choose between those two, clubs have more dancing. Yet parties are easier to hear people talk and make new friends. I'm going with both!

    WYR: Give me your phone number now so we can continue this game via text message or make me beg for it and continue this horribly inefficient process of email tag?
    (HINT: I don't beg for phone numbers)

    Her: Good answer.
    I'd give you my number but I live on the other side of the world and I've tried texting to the US before but it didn't work. I have aim and msn tho.
    WYR: get my aim/msn or end this conversation forever (wow drastic)?

    I wasn't aware that she didn't live near me until she said this, but I'm sure if she was a US I would've got her number, oh well though!

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    Me: Good lord you're gorgeous.

    Her: Thank you
    <3

    Me: Haha.
    No problem,
    Hey Let's play a "get to know each other" game..
    It's called Would you rather? And it's pretty self explanatory. I'll go first.
    WYR: Live in the mountains or in the big city?
    And why??

    Her:
    Id in the big city
    why? Cause i can meet alot more people
    and there would be more things to do.

    Would you have the girl you love or friends & lots of money?
    Why?

    Me: Nice answer,
    and I would much rather have a girl that I love.
    Can't buy love with money!
    Would you rather be stranded on an island alone or with someone you hate?

    Her: Aww your sweet.
    And totally with someone i hate
    cause i hate being alone

    Would you like a long relationship with a commitment
    or a different girls every nighthaving fun?

    Me: Thanks,
    you too. =]
    And lust is fun for awhile,
    but I would rather be in a relationship.
    WYR: Give me your number right now so we can finish our game via text message or make me beg for it and continue this horrible inefficient process of email tag?
    (HINT: I don't beg for numbers)

    Her: i will totally give you my number
    XXX-XXX-XXXX

    We texted for awhile and she flirted and told me how hott she thought I was, but I deleted her number because she has a boyfriend and I have morals. These were just a couple of the many numbers I've gotten from this routine so I Hope this helps people and good routine man!

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    honestly i have been using this theory in my opening statement to the girls on POF and i have had good replies back with them answering...while some would answer and send me a question and we'd go back and forth it actually works i even somehow got a number close out of it...don't know how i did it but i did lol.

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