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    Becoming a male escort

    Wasn't too sure which part of the forum to post this in but hopefully this is the best place.

    I'm looking into becoming a escort. Seems to be a job where you can have alot of fun and get payed good money for. I'm not looking at getting sexual, just going to functions etc.

    How important are looks?

    Most people say im a 7 or 8 out of 10, so i do consider myself put in the "goodlooking" cat. Just not super hot.

    Women will no doubt have different requirements in selecting a male escort, but i would like some opinions and advice/tips on making it in the industry.

    Thankyou



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    youre probably a bit on the old side tbh.
    You will need to be goodlooking / good body. You could either start by talking to older women and jokingly suggest it (if theyre wealthy).

    Or you could send an email to your local escort agency.

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    Male escorts are generally hired by unattractive gay men.

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    I'm just curious as to what sort of levels of demand there would be for attractive men to take women to functions... but not sleep with them?

    I'm not trying to knock down your career aspirations, but it seems like you're thinking along the lines of if I said, "I could get paid great money to go to functions with wealthy businessmen and not have them expect full service!" It seems... a tad unrealistic.

    Plus, as Vapor pointed out, male escorts are generally hired by unattractive homosexual men. I once met a couple of male escorts at a friend's place. Once we got talking one of them confessed to me that he truly believed the only way out was to kill his 'manager' and leave the country. I'm not sure what happened to him but I'm guessing he's probably still pretty unhappy.

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    I do really want to become a escort. Ive been told im around a 7 out of 10 in looks by several people, although looks aren't that important to women as they are to men. Or so the pua companies tell us.

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    I will try to break this down as some of the terminology you're using has a meaning you don't seem to intend. Traditionally, "escort" = "prostitute." Women do not hire male prostitutes, by and large. Gay men do. So if you want to be a male escort, in the real world those are men who are paid by other men to have sex with them.

    Your reply indicates that either you are either ignoring the gay angle or you're cool with it. If that's the case, Google the name of your city and "male escort" and you'll get a list of websites that provide that service. Bear in mind that this is illegal in many jurisdictions.
    I'm looking into becoming a escort. Seems to be a job where you can have alot of fun and get payed good money for. I'm not looking at getting sexual, just going to functions etc.
    In the event you really do mean nonsexual company for females, those jobs do exist in some big cities. Some women will occasionally "rent a date" for wedding or other functions, and the company has very strict rules about no actual romance. However, the women are selecting men based on photographs, and the agency is looking for "exceptional looking" men and women to work for them. So while a woman might be attracted to a guy who is a 7, she's not going to pick him out of list of photographs of 9's and 10's to spend $100s of dollars on.

    Being a somewhat above average looking guy is going to work against you in a business with very attractive people when you are being screened strictly based on appearance.

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    Yes non-sexual company.

    I have looked at a site and there are lots of guys i would consider a 7 out of 10. There are also lots of guys who are average or below. And a few goodlooking guys.

    Having a smart appearance and writing something decent on your profile should work wonders. Of course you can take tons of pics and select your best few.

    I hate all the "looks" thing really. People can't help the way they look and everyone should be able to work in whatever field they want. But it's a shame we seem to live in a shallow world with shallow people.

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    lol ever see Its Always Sunny in Philidelphia?

    its called a "Handsome Companion"
    Word Up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovinit View Post
    Yes non-sexual company.

    I have looked at a site and there are lots of guys i would consider a 7 out of 10. There are also lots of guys who are average or below. And a few goodlooking guys.

    Having a smart appearance and writing something decent on your profile should work wonders. Of course you can take tons of pics and select your best few.

    I hate all the "looks" thing really. People can't help the way they look and everyone should be able to work in whatever field they want. But it's a shame we seem to live in a shallow world with shallow people.

    everything is vapor said is true.

    Friend and I have researched escort business, both male and female, because, we wanted to start one ourselves (not us going as escorts but hiring independent "contractors")

    The legality of escort business is in VERY VERY shady gray area.
    The typical client for male escort is: Gay man, usually older, like Vapor pointed out, and it's pretty much prostitution.

    The demand for male escort from female is VERY VERY low to minimal; my city metro population is nearly 2 mill, and yet every escort business owner i talked to pointed out that it's almost rare women call in.

    Regarding looks:

    If you were to hire a $200 prostitute FOR SEX, would you want her to be HOT BABE 10 or would you want her to be an UGLY 5 you can talk philosophy and "meaning of life" with????? Didn't think so.

    Get over the looks. If a woman is paying couple hundred of dollars for a male escort, HE BETTER BE A GODDAMN ARM CANDY.



    If you want to make money in this kind of business, get into phone sex operator. You get 20/80% distribution of female vs. gay males calling.

    And you don't have to touch anyone. Just talk.
    The ghost of pua's past.

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    It's a shame looks have to come into things at all, be it escorting, dating or whatever.

    Wouldn't it be great if we all obviously looked different, but had the same attractiveness. Then we wouldn't have issues with looks at all. But it's just one big shallow world we live in. It should be personality.

    I have a female friend who is not attractive at all and she's always wanted to be a model/to be in adverts etc. She has tryed for years but all she gets is a big fat no.

    Her best friend on the other hand is very attractive but dosen't want to be a model or anything like that. Yet her friend gets offers for modeling jobs all the time. My friend gets laughed at when she tries.

    Yet for both sexes you can't help it if your goodlooking or not.
    Why should my friend have to suffer? From a girls point of view a pretty girl can do so much more, get great payed jobs, pull more then a unattractive girl and get away with lots of things. My friend has a nice personality.

    I don't fancy her either. But I think it's terrible that she can't get a guy or a job as a model through no fault of her own.


    As I said i get told im anything from a 6 to a 8 out of 10 in looks. There are still plenty of women who pay for non sexual company of a male to take them to the theatre and stuff like that.
    There are less attractive looking guys then me on the escort site i'm on.





    Can i request that we can add/talk about looks in the "memorial for people who think game dosen't work for ugly guys" in jive turkey? You can't add replies and every new post that gets posted about "looks" gets locked in that thread, but one can't reply.

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