The title sums everything up... How to deal with people who whine all the time.
Dealing with negative people
Especially girls. There is this former coworker who just seems to believe every person needs to know all the troubles in her life.
For the record, I am not trying to fuck her, don't even find her attractive.
When she is not complaining about her job, it's about her income, her body shape, her health, her period, her boyfriend, her sister who has a better job than her... Etc etc etc
She has complains for all ocassion. At least we don't work together Any longer but still see her everyday. We are both journalists in a small town so we usually are after the same news, sources etc...
Sometimes I wake up and already have a whatsapp message saying "I had such a bad night, my headache didn't let me sleep" and I am like wtf!!! I don't care!!!
I don't respond immediately to her messages, sometimes not at all but then she starts bugging me "sorry to bother you with all my troubles but you are a good friend"
Truth is she tells the same complaints to every one else...
One day we were at a press conference with some celebrity and this famous person invited all the journalist to a party on a boat and this girl started "oh yeah, I was on a boat when I found out my ex bf cheated on me" and proceeded to tell the details to everyone...
What can I do? When she starts i try to change topics but she wont get it, today I went further and said " I don't think I can be of much help with that matter, plus is a waste of time and energy to talk about your bf troubles since you already said plenty of times he is a good for nothing, a leech living of your salary and with no career prospects. You already know that, so I don't know why you keep telling me you want him to change"
And she just said you are right but some hours later she texted
"I think I should tell him this and that" and I didn't reply but wanted to say I don't give a fuck...
How does a man deal with this kind of girls?