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    I just wanted to say thx, for all the opinions/feedback, especially Fader's experience. I'm still going to look up this subject though... I'm trying to find unbiased documentaries on porn stars (I think I have seen all the documentaries made on pua's) that show the good and the bad, if anyone has any suggestions on some good documentaries feel free to share.



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    Can I ask a question Fader?

    I know you find strippers/dancers to be attractive, but like, doesn't that turn you off to them that they have serious psychological trauma and wounds?

    I had a really fucked up mother but a fantastic dad and that prevented me from having some massive issues, and I don't judge anyone for something bad that happened to them, but sometimes I feel like even if she were super hot and cool I'd always be a bit wary of such a girl. If not only because I would be nervous her damage might lead to very self destructive behavior in the future which would be heartbreaking if I really cared about her.

    Just wondering what your thoughts are on this?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amorphous View Post
    Can I ask a question Fader?

    I know you find strippers/dancers to be attractive, but like, doesn't that turn you off to them that they have serious psychological trauma and wounds?

    I had a really fucked up mother but a fantastic dad and that prevented me from having some massive issues, and I don't judge anyone for something bad that happened to them, but sometimes I feel like even if she were super hot and cool I'd always be a bit wary of such a girl. If not only because I would be nervous her damage might lead to very self destructive behavior in the future which would be heartbreaking if I really cared about her.

    Just wondering what your thoughts are on this?
    No probably because I had a really fucked up childhood. I came from such a low place that i am not phased by any of that. However at this point in my development dating dancers is more for fun & great sex then anything else. I am kind of looking to settle down and that would mean a girl who I could trust to one day be a mother. Dancers, most of them because there are exceptions, do not fit what I am looking for.
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