NYE in NYC?!

My cousin and I are looking to have an AMAZING time on New Year's Eve. We both have cute dresses, are finally 21 (and single at the same time!) and definitely would like to ring in the New Year the right way. Does anyone know of anything good going on? I'm more of a bar person but a nice lounge would be cool too.

Oh and as FAR AWAY from Times Sq (Midtown is still cool though, I work there in the summers and can navigate it very well) as possible. I'd rather live a life of celibacy than end up there for New Year's

Thank you gentlemen