Lately I have seen an influx of posts starting with my negs/disqualifiers/teases/routines don’t work. What’s wrong? This is the money question: I just read “
The Game” and TMM and
MB or whatever but I am still in the friend zone with my one-itis; what’s wrong? Thirdly, I have been going out quite a lot but I keep on getting blown out, this shit doesn’t work, you guys are a bunch of weirdos and fakes. The problem stems from unrealistic expectations on part of the people who start out. They think reading a couple of routines and some pickup theory should transform them into superstar PUAs, the ones they read about in their books.
After reading
Sinn’s “Game Accelerator”, I realized I do have a slight advantage over all the other PUAs starting out because I am SOCIALIZED. Before you ask any of the three questions that I mentioned above ask yourself this:
1. Are you socialized? What I mean is before getting into
the game did you go out with your friends? Were you part of various social circles and what was your status in them? You didn’t have to be the Alpha male but were you at least a Beta male who was somewhat valued by his friends?
2. Have you been around women? Even if it was getting LJBF’ed by the woman of your dreams or whatever, did you have a couple of female friends? Even those experiences help you put things in a better perspective and are a great help when you start out in the field.
3. Have you been sarging actively? Do you post on the forums for sound advice?
4. Have you been in this for < than 6 months? Give yourself at least a solid 6 months to absorb the theory and become socialized if you were not previously. All this will hold true if you actually do go out and sarge with your wings or solo.
The problem with inexperienced PUAs and I myself was guilty of this mindset is that we think read a couple of routines, know the theory, and start banging the 9s and the 10s. Fortunately I had an epiphany as soon as I got into this mindset and realized that I am a socialized guy. All I need to do is start going out, develop more social intuition, and just slog it out. If you were one of the guys who actually spent his whole day playing his
Xbox, PS3 or other PC games, you are not going to get SPECTACULAR results right away. Getting socialized and developing social intuition takes time and you should consider that when you think about your learning curve.
Another frequent question on the forums that need to be addressed is how to turn my friend into my
gf? Well, for one getting out of the zone is extremely hard and the “gurus” are right when they say it’s wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy easier to do a cold approach and get a bang than it is to get out of the zone. After you read this theory don’t go after your one-itis right away. Go out and get some approaches and numbers and lays under your belt. The skills needed to get out of the zone are frankly quite advanced and you should aim to develop them first.
With anything in life there is always a learning curve and this is no different. Diving into this head first is a good way to approach this; expecting to lay the 9s and 10s right away is not. Anytime you have questions like my looks are shit or this shit is fake, ask yourself one of the 4 questions and you will probably get your answer.
| This is the definitive work on pickup and dating theory, written by an acknowledged master of the game - a guy who’s TRAINED many of the new “gurus” on the scene! |
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Unrealistic Expectations 
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