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    How do I turn a friend into a friend with benefits?

    I know this has probably been talked to about to death on here but I couldn't find any threads on it. I want to with my friend but do I go about seducing her the way I would any date?

    If so how long should I take during the seduction process before going for a kiss, since we are friends to begin with? Plus my main concern is that I don't want her to think we are dating if I go for it the same way. How do I do that? Thanks.



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    get out of the friend zone first. There is a guide on how to do that in the stickys

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deman View Post
    get out of the friend zone first. There is a guide on how to do that in the stickys
    stickys?

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    sticky is da top of front page of the newbie forums

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    I'm sorry I don't understand. Is sticky a user? Could you just give me the link to the page with the info that could help me?

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    OK I tried taking my friend out of the friend zone and getting her attracted to me. I had the perfect opportunity to do this at a dance and I tried to kiss her when we were holding each other close and intimate but she backed away. Now she's uncomfortable with that so how do I get her back attracted to me so I can try again and all?

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    Quote Originally Posted by harmonica View Post
    OK I tried taking my friend out of the friend zone and getting her attracted to me. I had the perfect opportunity to do this at a dance and I tried to kiss her when we were holding each other close and intimate but she backed away. Now she's uncomfortable with that so how do I get her back attracted to me so I can try again and all?
    Dude, you are knee deep in the friend zone. FWB is a long shot for you. Her getting uncomfortable with the kiss just shows that as of now you are the Mayor of the zone. Read the how to get out of the zone threads on the forums and try some of that. It's good stuff but it ain't magic because it is really hard to get out of the zone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Budding P View Post
    Dude, you are knee deep in the friend zone. FWB is a long shot for you. Her getting uncomfortable with the kiss just shows that as of now you are the Mayor of the zone. Read the how to get out of the zone threads on the forums and try some of that. It's good stuff but it ain't magic because it is really hard to get out of the zone.
    It seemed to work so well till that kiss. Well where do I find this stuff on the forums?

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    Quote Originally Posted by harmonica View Post
    It seemed to work so well till that kiss. Well where do I find this stuff on the forums?
    Use the Search Function, on the navigation bar, third option from the right.
    When I am writing in red, it's as an Attraction Forums Admin. When I write in normal text, it's just me.

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