don't know what to do

[Nate]

Hi,guys

This is the first time I write something in the forum... and the reason is I need help from you all...I'm about to quit...
I feel like a loser without friends to go out at night (I'm 36) and no skills on pulling girls....I tried...I swear I tried..
Don't know what's wrong with me....

I know this post is shit...it is pessimistic...and I don't wanna put anyone down...sorry.

It's the way I feel...( yesterday night was awful... )

[The Eternal]

Buck up, read the material, and go at it slowly.

At first, just approach and eject. Seriously. It helps with your confidence. And just try to get it going a little further every time, and then just eject.

[CoyoteIrish]

Skills with women are a learned skill. Most of us have had a time in our lives where we failed miserably at pulling women. The difference is that some of us worked at it. And even though we got blown out set after set after set and had days where we plopped on our couch and contemplated going into the priesthood- we didn't give up.

This is not easy. It takes dedication and painfully hard work.

The question you have to ask yourself is- is all this worth it for a lifestyle like ours? This is a real question, weigh the pros and cons. For a lot of men, it's not. They are perfectly happy waiting and settling for that girl who just happened to come along in the right place at the right time. If this is you, you are in good company. 90% of guys are fine with this.

Some of us are not. We wanted an abundance of high quality women in our lives. We wanted to be ones selecting, not the ones being selected. And we worked hard to achieve these goals.

Figure out what you want your life to be like. The resources and knowledge for our methods are readily available to you. You just need to be strong enough to put in the effort to get the results

[Nate]

thanks for your responses,I realy apreciate that

well, I guess I needed some push from you people to keep going....you know, I had a terrible night...I got no problem open sets...but on one of those I realised something I do mostly all the time and that's the reason I fucked up.

The thing is this: I open the set but after one minute talking....I start to THINK....and suddenly I start to feel anxious, my mouth gets dry....I can't even smile naturally....I get serious face and I can't stop it...and everything goes wrong...

it's like a sabotage by myself... I hate when that happens, shit!!!!

What I want is just chill and relax...that's all...the total opposite of what I do.

[Shadoh]

Originally Posted by Nate

The thing is this: I open the set but after one minute talking....I start to THINK....and suddenly I start to feel anxious, my mouth gets dry....I can't even smile naturally....I get serious face and I can't stop it...and everything goes wrong...

slow it down your still having approach anxiety. so don't go in with the plan of getting a number or negging. go with the goal of talking for as long as you can. thats all. don't try and move too fast. if you get stuck. eject. sinple as that.
the more you talk, the better you'll be at holding a comfortable conversation. = anxiety will be gone.

gud luck