Day Game/Night Game or Online Dating... which is better?

[venice143]

First let me emphasize that I am looking for answers from people who have done both online dating and day game/night game. I'm wondering which method gets you the better first date? the problem with online dating is that you've never physically met her before and there's no telling what she really looks like or if she's weird or something on the other hand when you do day game/night game you can meet an hb and have a great time but when you go out on the first date maybe she won't be the same when you originally met, maybe it was the alcholol, the atmosphere or whatever.

If you have had experience with dating girls you met online and in the real world, please share your thoughts and opinions on which one leads to a better first date or a possible relationship.

[The_Rhyno]

depends on your personality. i like night game best because its active and the atmosphere gets me pumped. day game is more relaxed and you meet "nice girls" most of the time (boring). internet gaming is by far the easiest. theres also less pain involved with rejection on the internet (if youre affraid of being gunned down. i actually enjoy it from time to time).

[CoyoteIrish]

I posted a response on another one of your threads similar to this.

I honestly do not believe that online game and day/night game are equivalent. Often guys will turn to online game as a 'quick fix' since they are not seeing the immediate results of practicing day/night game. Plus, online game is easier on the ego as you don't have to deal with AA and face-to-face rejections. Body language, tonality, and delivery are not needed till AFTER the attraction phase.

Now as I said in my other post, online game is GREAT! An abundance of high quality women surrounded by clueless guys delivered directly to your house via internet 24/7. However, unless you already have a solid foundation and a great deal of experience in-field with day/night game- you will not develop the attractive social characteristics that embody the PUA lifestyle. I cannot stress enough how important day/night game is for understanding social calibration and enhancing social awareness. Online game should be used as a supplement to your in-field game.

Now, having said that, in terms of comparing the two in the light of a Day2 or first date:

Basically, the biggest difference is that no matter how many attraction gambits or comfort building routines you run online or through the phone...you start from scratch the minute you meet up for the first time. This is why it's strongly encouraged in the community to set-up a meeting RIGHT AWAY so that you do not waste time keeping her hooked with routines that do not carry over past the first meet.

In a day/night game Day 2 (especially night game), you should have already been getting her used to your touch with kino. Also, whatever phase you left her at after the approach, she is still there provided you haven't let her buying temperature drop too much.

This is why the first 20 minutes of an Online game meeting and a Day/Night game Day2 are played differently. In an online game meeting, she hasn't qualified herself to you in person yet, and therefore does not deserve positive body language until she does. In a Day 2 (depending on where you are in the emotional progression) positive body language encourages her to open to you.

After the first 20 minutes or so, An online game meeting and a day/night game Day 2 will become very similar.

I have heard horror stories of guys who have gone on online meetups to find that their 'curvy' girl is 300 lbs or that their 'petite blonde' is actually a midget. My wings and I have been heavily experimenting with online game for close to a year now, and have yet to encounter something that drastic (Though we honestly would love to! Just for the hell of it). It is common for girls to use pictures that don't really accurately portray their physical appearance, but i've found that the picture is not too far off from the reality. Also, I have no experience with women pretending to be younger than they are as my online dating is centered around 18-25 year olds, but I have heard that it is common practice.