Discuss Cute Gothette in class, I want to hit on her! at the Newbie Discussion Forum within the The Attraction Forums. Dating Advice.; okay write down a routine and actually pracice saying it. heres an example
opener: hey ...
okay write down a routine and actually pracice saying it. heres an example
opener: hey im glad to see im not the only one who likes black finger nail polish (please dont put any on this way shell question you on it)
transition: is this so and so lecture if she says yes you can move in to asking questions like oh you couldnt get into cosmptology either if she say something like havent you been here before you can reply with oh so your stocking me now, do do this to all the tall dark and handsome guys you sit next to
attraction: do a cocky funny routine/ get her number or if your ballsy try to bounce her after class
comfort: have you been to a that coffee shop right campus "no" u should take me there
You know what to do, you're just scared
:drooling: I LOVE goth girls... :drooling:
Gothic girls are still girls, they're just into different things. DO NOT neg her on being gothic. The only thing she'll think is "...wow, i've never heard that before... you're fucking original. ...fucking dumbass..."
instead, general-purpose banter/negs that have nothing to do with her being gothic will work.
MUSIC will probably be a big one. Ask her what music she listens to. if you don't already own it, pick up the album "kiss me kiss me kiss me" by the cure and "wild mood swings" also by the cure. it'll give you a head start.
don't call attention to the fact that shes goth. This sets off creeper alarms. It's like if a guy had a foot fetish and he came on to a girl talking about her feet.
btw, is she a goth, a punk, or emo chick? there are differences and if you can't tell the difference you will never get to know her well enough to get anywhere with her. you have to differentiate yourself from the throngs of conformist sheep.
Wow, thanks for all the replies, but the first guy was right, this is really silly of me.
I'll just go, use whatever I have used or whatever shit I can imagine out of the air and talk to her. I might not be able to game her, but at least I'll have tried.
But keep the suggestions flowing though. I agree with the suggestions not to draw attention to her image unless she talks about it.
I like indie music though I don't dress that way yet. One thing I do stay away from is heavy metal and emo music though. Guess even disagreeing shows Frame or whatever.
What I really need to work on is making DHV's!, having convo topics and learning how to kino/escalate.
hey bro just keep one thing in mind mydtery said the pua is the exception to the rule so everyguy out there has probly commented her on goth style so stay clear from that, be fore i approach i dont ask my self what would john say? (thats my name) i ask myself what would sl3vin say?
You know what to do, you're just scared
If you can engage a conversation with the other people in class, work your way to talking to her. The goth look is just a style and might not mean much to her except that other looks don't work for her. For all you know she might be working at the strip club in another part of the state.
My advice is if she is a genuine Goth do not shotgun neg her. Shotgunning emos or goths is suicide because it'll go like this. "He's just another jerk who likes to insult me" Tease neg her that she's cute like her nose wiggles or something. Do not lower her value it's already pretty damn low. And if you have a problem speaking during lecture then get a piece of paper and write down a smart comment and invite her to write a reply. Repeat the writing until she really enjoys doing it and starts to like you.
3 days to go here's my plan
Monday - Self limiting beliefs, Frame, Inner game, watch Ross Jefferies and Juggler.
Tuesday - Write DHV story, create 3 openers, 5 convo topics, learn some c/f routines, comfort routines
Wed - Practice shit tests, grooming, Create NLP lines
Solution to possible obstacles,
- she puts her bag on the seat next to her and sits in the corner
- With friend
- With boyfriend
Thus - Wish me luck. 3s rule and smile like you mean it.
If your looking for subjects, try looking into some of these things. I've known some darker girls, and alot of them are 'probably' into it.
The cartoon "Invader Zim". The artist responsible for much of the material is Jhonen Vasquez. He did a comic called "Johnny, The Homicidal Maniac". Real dark humor, but generally most goth girls really like him. You can also look up a comic book artist called Roman Dirge who does similar stuff. You could also look into the artwork of H.R. Geiger. He did the monster design for the movie Aliens. Alot of goths are really into his stuff. The writings of Edgar Allen Poe and H.P. Lovecraft are also very popular among goths.
Just don't try to act an expert on anything you don't know about.