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I used to hang out ...
How to seduce a girl again, after she lost interest?
I used to hang out with this girl for sometime, while she was attached to a guy who's a real punk and make her unhappy all the time. Managed to make her laugh all the time, go out on dates, vacations, beaches. Even got into kino such as holding hands/waist, and kissing.
Then suddenly one day, her bf broke up with her, and she suddenly drew away from me. She was sad and wanted to get back badly with the guy, heaven knows why.
She never replied my msgs, never try to continue conversations. She never initiated any dates like she used to. In short she lost interest.
So how to I get her interested again? Yeah, I mean the right thing to do is move on, and go on seducing other girls. I did, and I minimized any form of contact with her now.
But hey, just how do I get her interested again? Imo, this takes awfully lots of skill
You cant get her interested cuz shes already made up her mind. move on and talk to other girls.
Shes insecure. so that means shes going to go after dicks. being a nice guy wont work. im still learning to be a dick : )
that's it? i mean ya, no offense, but this is kinda boring answer. how abt somethiing refreshing? :P
yep thats pretty much it.
move on, talk to other girls and try to forget about her.
she may or may not come back
move on but you could always try bringing another girl in front of her if you really wanted her back but its really not worth the effort
I may be fairly new to all this but it kind of irks me when other guys recommend sarging or meeting a heap of new women as the sole solution to get over one-itis. Personally I think if a guy has trouble getting over a girl that is not interested in him it indicates something a little deeper than a need to sarge more women. Try focussing on the way you think a little more and spend some time working out what it is that makes you feel the need to get the attraction back. When you figure it out, work on it until it doesn't happen again. Sure, it may help to meet other women to boost the confidence and give you more options but it may be something else in your life that needs a little attention.
Do the jelousy plot. Or just don't talk to her for a bit and then come back. she'll miss your presence.
hey man, im new to this but i think what might of happined is .. if she where to speak to you or do nethin .. so on , so forth. That she will be reminded of her ex and it will just cause her pain.. so if this is the case than later on down the track when she's over her ex theres a good chance u'll be bk in.. u seemed to have left a positive mark on her.. neway gudluck man and dnt stop sargin lol ..peace..
hm...how would she be reminded of her ex just by talking to me? anyway, its like i haven't really won her over, so moving on and sarging otehr girls is not a solution imo. hehe
Originally Posted by _LOCO_
Yes, perhaps play the jealousy plot. Ask her advice about a drop dead gorgeous girl you are dating. Make sure you make her as alluring as possible and much younger than her. Tell her she keeps wanting to see you and you're overwhelmed.