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    The second biggest problem in seduction - Keep Conversation Going

    Hy Guys! Almost anyone in the seduction comunity says that AA is the biggest problem of a begining PUA. The second biggest problem, I think is keeping a interesting conversation, or keeping the conversation going. And because of not being able of that many of us suffer of the first problem, AA.

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    Well, I'm not an expert on what to say, but in all my studying in this field, and all the lack-luster conversations I've had (with women, men, friends, strangers, co-workers, etc.) over the years, I've learned that any good conversation is not an interview. don't just keep asking questions. I've tried to telling stories, but i don't know how to keep stories exciting or funny. can any body else help?
    [FONT="Palatino Linotype"]"...An intelligent man cannot seriously become anything; that only a fool can become something" - Dostoevsky[/FONT]

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    this has been the biggest sticking point for me as well....as I can tell stories and talk about myself and my interests....but after a while I run out of things to say as most girls I meet can only talk about clothes or getting drunk at clubs.

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    You need to lead the conversation creating opportunities for them to be interesting and create new topics etc.
    "Y'know, you look like a traveler, am I right?"
    Or simply things that your interested in trying to find some sort of spark. I hate running into the girls that talk the basic stuff of shopping and how drunk they can get and depending on where you've met them (ie university, club, mall etc) you can call them out on it and see if it leads to anything more interesting,
    "Your the only girl I've met here tonight that defines herself by drinking/shopping/whatever, I think you might be the loner of the group." said in a teasing way or whatever the situation calls for.

    Overall: be interesting and she should respond. If not... find someone you click with more. You'll learn either way.
    Sometimes all you need to do is raise your eyebrow the right way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RaisedEyeBrow View Post
    You need to lead the conversation creating opportunities for them to be interesting and create new topics etc.
    "Y'know, you look like a traveler, am I right?"
    Or simply things that your interested in trying to find some sort of spark. I hate running into the girls that talk the basic stuff of shopping and how drunk they can get and depending on where you've met them (ie university, club, mall etc) you can call them out on it and see if it leads to anything more interesting,
    "Your the only girl I've met here tonight that defines herself by drinking/shopping/whatever, I think you might be the loner of the group." said in a teasing way or whatever the situation calls for.

    Overall: be interesting and she should respond. If not... find someone you click with more. You'll learn either way.

    It is practifce practice practice.


    The more you open, the more conversations you get in, and you WILL get stuck at first. After time you learn how to keep a covnersation going for a while. Save the silly questions like.. Where are you from, how old are you, as an absolutely last resort. Those are terrible questions to ask, but can sometimes save a set if yer desperate.

    In time you learn to start threads based on their responses and it just becomes natural. Patience, go out, open set, have fun!

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    Quote Originally Posted by RaisedEyeBrow View Post
    You need to lead the conversation creating opportunities for them to be interesting and create new topics etc.
    "Y'know, you look like a traveler, am I right?"
    Or simply things that your interested in trying to find some sort of spark. I hate running into the girls that talk the basic stuff of shopping and how drunk they can get and depending on where you've met them (ie university, club, mall etc) you can call them out on it and see if it leads to anything more interesting,
    "Your the only girl I've met here tonight that defines herself by drinking/shopping/whatever, I think you might be the loner of the group." said in a teasing way or whatever the situation calls for.

    Overall: be interesting and she should respond. If not... find someone you click with more. You'll learn either way.
    True, and with some that works...but I've noticed with a lot of younger ones (18-21) all they do is drink/club/shop/class. I know when I talk about my plans, interests, etc they get drawn in, but it pretty much ends at that...or when I try and get them to tell me more...even by using your line, they typically respond with something like "no, all my friends do that", or in some cases they say they aren't as interesting as me, and want me to tell them more about x or y but it never goes beyond that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic Ace View Post
    Hy Guys! Almost anyone in the seduction comunity says that AA is the biggest problem of a begining PUA. The second biggest problem, I think is keeping a interesting conversation, or keeping the conversation going. And because of not being able of that many of us suffer of the first problem, AA.

    Share you secrets please. All of you!

    Address your Second Problem first and First problem will not exist.

    Most guys have AA because they have no idea what they will say after opening..
    The ghost of pua's past.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TrueStory View Post
    Address your Second Problem first and First problem will not exist.

    Most guys have AA because they have no idea what they will say after opening..
    Some of the truest words ever spoken!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mungojerry View Post
    Some of the truest words ever spoken!
    That's why I ask for advice about keeping a conversation going...he just repeated my words...:P

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic Ace View Post
    That's why I ask for advice about keeping a conversation going...he just repeated my words...:P

    Read my "How To DHV" Post.

    This should help you creating stories;

    Get Magic Bullets. It will give you some routines to work with. Also Routine Manual is full of new-non-exposed stuff.

    Being talkative is not something that comes over night. You have to practice at it. But in order to practice you have to open. Catch-22, isn't it?
    The ghost of pua's past.

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