My Direct Approach Experience

[shaq420]

Today I went up to an HB 8. I used a direct opener.

Me: Hi, I usually dont do this. But I have to say that you look cute, so I had to come by and see what you were like.
Her: Oh thank you, I just got back from the gym so I didnt think I looked so great.
Me: What was your name?
*hand shake after introductions*
Her: Well it was nice meeting you.
Then I walk off and as I walk off she says,
Her: Sorry (in a low tone)

Should I have walked off or continue to persist after the "It was nice meeting you." line? And if I should persist after the it was nice meeting you line, how I do I take it from there?

[tubby hayes]

After intros,

You: what do you do for fun?

Could have continued the gym line with "yeah you looked kind of sweaty, but I wasn't going to say anything"

Just keep the interaction GOING! Don't stop keep ploughing!

[Oaks]

ya, you def should have kept going. theres really no point in approaching if you arent gonna pursue it

[shaq420]

How about this?

Her: Well it was nice meeting you
Me: Oh yea it was definitely nice meeting you too, but you got to save that for the very end...*smirk* So anyways...

[hness000]

Originally Posted by shaq420

Should I have walked off or continue to persist after the "It was nice meeting you." line? And if I should persist after the it was nice meeting you line, how I do I take it from there?

Remember, if she accepts your direct approach and gives you IOIs right off the bat, you get a license to do and say a lot more than if you opened with indirect game. You could've said the least witty/creative line in the world (e.g. how are you today?) and it would've still packed a punch, as long as your frame was strong and you had good BL.

Also, for direct game, what helps me a lot is aggresive kino. When you shake her hand, keep holding it lightly while you place your left hand lightly on the back of her upper arm. Step in a little closer if its a louder environment and stare her directly in the eyes while you say whatever dumb shit comes to your mind (e.g. HB my name is blah blah. It's a pleasure to meet you.) I sometimes step it up a little bit and pull some zorro hand kissing shit on her for added effect.

The whole point of all this is to create a sexual presence, which goes well with direct game.

PS- I've been converted to direct game and advanced body language from Cajun, so check out everything you can from him to learn more. I recommend reading his three-part article on advanced BL and watching his keys to the VIP performance.

[shaq420]

Originally Posted by hness000

Remember, if she accepts your direct approach and gives you IOIs right off the bat, you get a license to do and say a lot more than if you opened with indirect game. You could've said the least witty/creative line in the world (e.g. how are you today?) and it would've still packed a punch, as long as your frame was strong and you had good BL.

Also, for direct game, what helps me a lot is aggresive kino. When you shake her hand, keep holding it lightly while you place your left hand lightly on the back of her upper arm. Step in a little closer if its a louder environment and stare her directly in the eyes while you say whatever dumb shit comes to your mind (e.g. HB my name is blah blah. It's a pleasure to meet you.) I sometimes step it up a little bit and pull some zorro hand kissing shit on her for added effect.

The whole point of all this is to create a sexual presence, which goes well with direct game.

PS- I've been converted to direct game and advanced body language from Cajun, so check out everything you can from him to learn more. I recommend reading his three-part article on advanced BL and watching his keys to the VIP performance.

Thank you for the insight. I have a lot to learn. In your opinion though, the aggressive kino...did u ever get the vibe that you might come off as too creepy early on?

[hness000]

Originally Posted by shaq420

did u ever get the vibe that you might come off as too creepy early on?

Short answer: no.

If i'm doing solid direct game - which I can only do when I have the proper frame - the idea of me being anything but the sexiest man in the room doesn't even cross my mind. As a result, girls respond to me as such.

If you're doing something like the handshake thing I described and you feel like you might be creepy, then you're not in the proper mind frame, and there is a good chance you will come across as creepy.

That's why, in my opinion, direct game is superior and should be the ideal to strive for. Developing your direct game is not about memorizing routines and learning lines, it's about convincing yourself that YOU ARE THE MOTHERFUCKING MAN!

And the most beautiful thing about it is, if you truly believe you are the man, then you WILL be the man, and the girl will be sucked into your frame like the sex magnet you are.

Anyways, a more practical tip: I normally don't start my night off feeling like the man, so I warm up at a different bar with indirect game to get into a social mood. After one or two sets, my swagger is high enough for me to walk into the real bar, make a good first impression, and start going direct.

First impressions are key, because good one's will get a few stares from girls- in which case you lock eye contact, walk over to her while maintaining contact, and in you sexiest voice say: "Listen, you can't look at me like that and not say anything."

After something like that, you can say whatever the fuck you want.