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Originally Posted by shaq420 did u ever get the vibe that you might come off as too creepy early on? |
Short answer: no.
If i'm doing solid
direct game - which I can only do when I have the proper frame - the idea of me being anything but the sexiest man in the room doesn't even cross my mind. As a result, girls respond to me as such.
If you're doing something like the handshake thing I described and you feel like you might be creepy, then you're not in the proper mind frame, and there is a good chance you will come across as creepy.
That's why, in my opinion,
direct game is superior and should be the ideal to strive for. Developing your
direct game is not about memorizing routines and learning lines, it's about convincing yourself that YOU ARE THE MOTHERFUCKING MAN!
And the most beautiful thing about it is, if you truly believe you are the man, then you WILL be the man, and the girl will be sucked into your frame like the sex magnet you are.
Anyways, a more practical tip: I normally don't start my night off feeling like the man, so I warm up at a different bar with indirect game to get into a social mood. After one or two sets, my swagger is high enough for me to walk into the real bar, make a good first impression, and start going direct.
First impressions are key, because good one's will get a few stares from girls- in which case you lock eye contact, walk over to her while maintaining contact, and in you sexiest voice say: "Listen, you can't look at me like that and not say anything."
After something like that, you can say whatever the fuck you want.