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Said she had a boyfriend but gave her number anyway, how to proceed?
Hey guys . Got an HB9's number last night after pulling her and her friend into my group with an observational opener. they hooked immediately and all of us (my 3 buddies and the two of them) engaged in real conversation. Lots of banter. We tried to guess eachother's background. A genuinely good time was had by everyone. I had to get this girl's number.
So as we were leaving as the bar was closing, I bumped into them outside and grabbed her..told her (and i know this is horribly sloppy on my part), that we should all hang out again and if she had fb. She said I'd have to add her friend and then add her. I asked her if she had a number while pulling my phone out. She proceeded to give me her number with 'i gotta warn you though i have a boyfriend'. I told her, to kind of calibrate, we'll all get together sometime (poor move obviously) and that we'll start a gang together (referencing a neg from being from a certain part of toronto that she was from). told her it was nice meeting her and we went our separate ways.
Now, I'm new to this, read a lot of the theory, etc...
She's young (19) and I'm 23. She's in university, and as a lot of us know...a 'serious' relationship at 19 doesnt commonly last. hahaha.
SO how does one proceed? Do I call her? If so, when, and what kind of meeting do I set up? Any advice? Much appreciated. This is a whole new world to me but i'm glad to be exploring it. thanks, guys.
proceed the same as if she doesn't have a boyfriend. she likes you, you like her, and you don't want her as a friend. that's the only way to go. just make sure to bring your gun with you in case your run into her 300lbs boyfriend.
he's right just proceed like she doesnt have a bf but be prepared to AMOG and steal her away... its sounds like she is looking for sombody else anyway or she wouldnt be flirting and giving u her number
Don't Sweat it man if you sweat it and worry about it your dlving yourself even if ur not in front of a women you'll create that vibe when u're around her or another women for that fact.
Originally Posted by stars
I Ran into this a girl from work i asked if she wanted to hang out and c a movie, she said "What Movie?" i told her i didn't know but was leaning towards one told her title of movie, then she said "I Can't I'm going ice skating with my b/f.
Now at work all she is doing is giving me IOI's through body language and that whole b/f thing was a cover up as it states the the book by myster and lovedrop [something of this sort can't remember exact phrasing] "She may mention she has a boyfriend rather she has one or not she just doesn't want to appear that she can't get a b/f" (Something like that).
Also i seen her at the party that a fellow co-worker hosted and i heard complaining about (Some guy not ever txting her)
My take: She's got a b/f but they aint doing good OR She's trying to do a jealousy plotline.
Just make sure he's not packin heat with him . Dive out of the way if he's rollin to .
Originally Posted by Muk
A Few Last Comments:
my gat's much bigger then yours is
1) If you care that she has a boyfriend then your just another guy (DLV'd yourself)
2) If you need help feel free to message me on messenger (just let me know who u r and where you go my account)
Last edited by DaBomb; 12-27-2008 at 08:57 AM.
Reason: Few Minor details i forgot
"(This is my understanding of each)
Attraction - Female is qualifying the male
Qualification - Male is qualifying the female
Comfort - Both feel the other has sufficient value, and this is where they build their connection
Seduction - Each are so comfortable they may end up in the sex phase of the model ("Where it goes beyond kissing, and sex is realistically possible" - Magic Bullets)"
"Good idea, she can keep you from throwing yourself at me (not said seriously)"
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