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what to do when a girl asks you flat out why u like her
so theres this HB9 that i was messin around with and she asked me FLAT OUT 'why do u like me'....it was already obvious that i liked her and that she liked me because we were already making out for a while
i wasnt quite sure what to say...i didnt want to give her too much credit...i ended up saying somethin like 'ur a lot of fun to talk to, dont meet many girls like that'....i know thats a shitty answer but i honestly had no clue what to say...
i ended up penetrating a couple hours later but i still want to know some good answers to that question....
wow thats a good question let me know what they tell you in case that comes up for me.
If she has been making out with you already, she is asking because you never TOLD her why you like her (eg you fucked up in qualification, NOT her shit testing you). So what do you do?
At first tell her something vague, so as not to fall too much into her frame. "You know? I can't put my finger on it, I'm just drawn to you..." would be a good example.
Then go back and QUALIFY her properly, rewarding her for her investment and telling her why you like her. If you don't know how to qualify, look at the stickied threads under the "qualification" forum or refer to Magic Bullets.
Follow your inhibitions, as they will show you where you need to grow.
"haha, not at all, get out of my house" smile
I usually go comedic...
"I like headaches..."
as RVCA mentioned... "I don't, go back to bed baby"
"I like that I really don't have to like you"
Whatever I say, its mostly redirection to the question..
the alternative is to give her a few non physical qualities I like about her. However, if she knows you have a deep connection mention stuff that's purely physical.
"You're just a dick in a button up" -HBArtsy
I like SwordJunkie's response. I would say something like "You have an energy about you I find interesting". Not too flattering, but it still shows you want to continue the interaction.
I think RVCA's response would only work if she's actually in your house. But, I do think it would work well in that case.
LMFAO 'I like headaches.."
Originally Posted by Libido
thanks, this is what i was lookin for, i like going comedic on my responses too
but what happens if she asks you when her LMR kicks in??
...in a serious manner and she tells u not to joke around??? in a c2 or c3 setting
do u say the same thing? she could get annnoyed if that happens...
It depends on the situation.
Is she in a good mood? It's time for some banter.
"I like you because your rich. I plan to marry you in vegas, then divorce you and take half your money. Wait..you aren't rich?"
If she is insecure and in a bad mood, you probably fucked up qualification. You want to be genuine here, and highlight something that is not superficial.
"You know, I've been trying to figure that out myself. There is just something about your aura/energy that seems to draw me in. You don't see that in a lot of people these days"
nono, she was NOT in a bad mood....we were just making out :| and she said "your lips taste better than candy".... so she was DEFINETLY in a good mood, and smiling/blushing a lot too
this girl tho, shes very down to earth, whenever i seemed to give her a witty answer she would be like 'seriously....tell me the truth', or something along those lines.
what i did OBVIOUSLY worked...every time she asked me something "seriously", i would tell her something non-superficial that i liked about her then gave her a neg...
in this situation i said 'ur a lot of fun to talk to...dont meet many girls like that', then i ended up inducting her into the infamous PEN15 club she got a kick out of it
thanks for the replies guys, this helped
That was a good answer itself flexer. Just be honest and everything will be good.
Practice will keep pulling you upward, away from the mediocre toward the exceptional. Do your fucking job.