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    why cant i get laid......

    i have this problem, im in college now and ive never had a girlfriend and im a virgin. i get girls numbers and i go back and forth on when to call to the point where i dont bother calling them at all the ones i do call it never really works out all my friends are like i cant beleive ur still a virgin..i have a friend fresh out of haiti and can barely speak english he's gettin laid like every weekend..like wat the am i doin wrong...im a stylish dresser, very clean cut, very laid back but when i m with a woman i cant really get it right i end up sayin lame ****, i dont really know when to make a move...while all my friends take home some of the finest girls i have ever seen i end up drivin home alone feelin like ****......



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    Quote Originally Posted by pierre17 View Post
    i have this problem, im in college now and ive never had a girlfriend and im a virgin. i get girls numbers and i go back and forth on when to call to the point where i dont bother calling them at all the ones i do call it never really works out all my friends are like i cant beleive ur still a virgin..i have a friend fresh out of haiti and can barely speak english he's gettin laid like every weekend..like wat the am i doin wrong...im a stylish dresser, very clean cut, very laid back but when i m with a woman i cant really get it right i end up sayin lame ****, i dont really know when to make a move...while all my friends take home some of the finest girls i have ever seen i end up drivin home alone feelin like ****......
    damn this shit just made me sad......go read up on some game material while i get a box of tissue....

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    dude getting laid isnt really THAT big of a deal. I got my first lay about 2 weeks ago and I have to say its the parts building up to it that I find more exciting/interesting then the actual act itself.

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    Go read:

    The Game by Neil Strauss
    Magic Bullets by Savoy

    In that order. Then see how you feel.

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    If you just want to hook up in college numbers are way overstressed. Instead of going for numbers from girls at parties just go for the hook up. The worst way to go about trying to get laid is to have this drawn out affair you ask someone out to dinner blah blah blah. All the girls I ended up dating in college we hooked up long before I dated them.

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    finally something that makes sense

    Quote Originally Posted by JoeFred View Post
    If you just want to hook up in college numbers are way overstressed. Instead of going for numbers from girls at parties just go for the hook up. The worst way to go about trying to get laid is to have this drawn out affair you ask someone out to dinner blah blah blah. All the girls I ended up dating in college we hooked up long before I dated them.
    that actually made sense........

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoeFred View Post
    If you just want to hook up in college numbers are way overstressed. Instead of going for numbers from girls at parties just go for the hook up. The worst way to go about trying to get laid is to have this drawn out affair you ask someone out to dinner blah blah blah. All the girls I ended up dating in college we hooked up long before I dated them.
    very true in college. college girls have short attention spans. get them while they are ready to go. which is normally the night you meet them. no lie in college go to seal it fast

    read magic bullets. or follow me around for a month

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    Quote Originally Posted by pierre17 View Post
    wat the am i doin wrong...im a stylish dresser, very clean cut, very laid back but when i m with a woman i cant really get it right i end up sayin lame ****, i dont really know when to make a move.
    Are you scared of rejection? Is there some social pressure your feeling?

    It's better to make a move and get blown out than not too.

    If there is alcohol involved ie party, pub, club, chillin with mates. And your talking to a girl for more than 10 mins. Get her alone, try and kiss her.

    No more getting numbers for you. If you go to ask for a number, instead go for a kiss. Push the interaction to the next level.

    What that guy who doesn't speak english very well is doing is using body language and cavemaning.

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    i think this guy needs some david deangelo, to lay a foundation.

    as far as going home feeling like shit, welcome to the brotherhood. i cant imagine theres a guy here that hasnt done that.

    sounds like you got some shit handled already. would be nice to have a pic of you dressed as you normally would be, so we can see if youre on point or full of shit lol.

    but either way, youve come to the right place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by R V C A View Post
    very true in college. college girls have short attention spans. get them while they are ready to go. which is normally the night you meet them. no lie in college go to seal it fast

    read magic bullets. or follow me around for a month
    now when u say kiss u mean a full head on kiss right not no peck on the cheek shit right.........

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