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I'm new on this forum. I've read the Mystery Method ...
Girls Not Calling Back
I'm new on this forum. I've read the Mystery Method and have watched videos online so I understand the concept. I don't necessarily perform it as well as I should but I get phone numbers. When i call, the girls don't answer so i leave a v-mail but they usually don't call back. What is the reason for this?
Last edited by Daddy O; 08-25-2008 at 12:02 PM.
Type here exactly what you are saying.
Last edited by Lansing; 08-25-2008 at 12:28 PM.
I don't always say the same thing but this is something the last few times:
Hey I'll be running some errands this weekend by (place) area. Lets get together for coffee. Its something low-key and casual, I just want to see what you're about.
1. You may have not built up enough attraction for her to remember and want to get in touch with you.
Originally Posted by Daddy O
2. Desirable, "high-value" chicks won't call guys.
3. She could be busy.
Also, don't do coffee. Everybody does coffee. She's gone out with 10 different guys all on coffee dates this month, now you're leaving a vm for another one? Better yet, don't propose a date at all when you first contact them.
This is all addressed in detail in Magic Bullets. Read it. Understand it. Meditate on it.
On the threshold of liberty ...
I agree that it isn't ideal to propose a date on the voicemail.
Best to say something short like "Hey, it is XXX. You can call me back" or "Hey, it is XXX, I'll talk to you later" (credit goes to a few people on this, one of them being Mehow but he probably stole it from someone.. haha).
Or, I heard/read one recently that I liked. Something like
"Hey, it is xxx..... I got an awesome adventure that I know you would love, talk to you later" or something along those lines... it doesn't have to be anything crazy/big but something different.
I am working on trying different things because I also have issues with girls calling back.. When I get a girl on the phone conversation is great, but, I don't like leaving voicemails.. I tense up.
Originally Posted by sagacity
I agree with the first two answers.
You have not built enough attraction for these girls to remember you. Ya you got the digits, but most of the first numbers u get flake...it happens to all of us, keep plugging and working on building more attraction with the girl.
Also the messages you are leaving are not interesting enough for a call back... errands are not fun to a girl, especially those hb 8s and 9s and 10s!
Leave a message saying you are going to this awesome new place that opened up around the corner, you should stop by and check it out with me itd be a blast" something like that you know? Even make shit up for practice and see if she responds to that? "Like I know this great party at blah blah, its gonna be tons of fun, you should check it out.."
And dont be needy on these voicemails, always be busy! Even if u are not! got it?