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    What to do about a girl who likes me, that I don't like

    (I'm new to the forums, so forgive me if my lingo is off)

    So there is this girl. She is a 6, and I had a short thing with her for about a month. We got as far as a hand-job, and then a few days later I gave her a non-cliche version of "I just want to be friends." (Because I do really like her company, but I felt like she was treating me like her BF)

    Today she called me, 2 weeks later, and asked if I wanted to hang this Friday. Now I am definitely meeting a different chick Friday.

    My question is, what should I ultimately do with the "friend" chick who likes me? Ideally, I'd love to work things out where I have a date with her and another chick, and bring them both to a club together. Can I use her as a pivot, even though she likes me? I mean I don't want to hurt her or any other women.

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    You can probably convert her to a pivot, or just a friend, but not that quick. You'd probably hurt both their feelings. Text her that night as your heading out perhaps and explain you're on a date, but she's welcome to come hang out at the club or whatever. Tell your date she's just a friend. May can use a little jealousy with your date, but the 6 is obviously hooked. No point in leading her on.
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    Yeah, obviously she'll be upset about the lack of boyfriend/girlfriend but tell her that she should go out with you as a friend... make it obvious you dont like her in that way... just like you've already done.

    But the best way to create jealousy to your next target is to go over to your friend and tell her to sit on ur lap... trust me, it works!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1oOo1oOo111oOo1oOo1 View Post
    (I'm new to the forums, so forgive me if my lingo is off)

    So there is this girl. She is a 6, and I had a short thing with her for about a month. We got as far as a hand-job, and then a few days later I gave her a non-cliche version of "I just want to be friends." (Because I do really like her company, but I felt like she was treating me like her BF)

    Today she called me, 2 weeks later, and asked if I wanted to hang this Friday. Now I am definitely meeting a different chick Friday.

    My question is, what should I ultimately do with the "friend" chick who likes me? Ideally, I'd love to work things out where I have a date with her and another chick, and bring them both to a club together. Can I use her as a pivot, even though she likes me? I mean I don't want to hurt her or any other women.

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    Dude when you have a girl friend that's obsessed with you, it's better to just let her go and not talk to her. Really. Just tell her, you can't be her friend because she wants to fuck you. Trust me, she'll understand. (if not, who cares?)
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    Follow up

    In case any one cares, I cancelled my other date, hung out and watched TV with the girl who likes me, and got a BJ. I'm a guy, I can't help it.

    Now I'm definitely done with her.

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    i agree with an pior post.
    stop talking to her right now. trust me. a leaching hb 6 is the last thing you need in your life.
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    Dude you just lead that girl on, used her for a sexual favor and now your going to hurt her feelings...

    Why? Why not just cut off contact and go out with the other girl? Remember our goal here is to leave them better off than they were when we met them.
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    lol, you are all probably right.
    Her main hang up was "Well, as long as we didn't have sex..." So I made sure we DIDN'T have sex, so at the least she'd only feel slightly used...(horrible, because I definitely have no hatred in my heart for women)

    I am done with her, moving on. I have other girls that I'm working on, and getting action from, but this chick is definitely at that line where I'm like: "She is just below my standards...but easy ass..."

    I'm a doctor for gawd sakes, I should be able to do better then a 6! hehe

    Thanks for the brief intervention.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 1oOo1oOo111oOo1oOo1 View Post

    I'm a doctor for gawd sakes, I should be able to do better then a 6! hehe

    Thanks for the brief intervention.
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    YEAH MAN!!!! FUCK!!!!!!!!!

    When they ask you what you do and you can drop that bomb on them......I'm surprised panties don't immediately start hitting the floor!

    In all seriousness though, being a doc is big social proof. It instantly tells them, you are smart, successful, have money, etc.

    The only thing I would watch for is gold diggers, Be careful. And I'm sure you know that, but for whatever reason it seems I'm seeing more and more of them these days. I've been tending to just go for girls who are successful to a degree themselves lately for that reason.
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