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This weekend i f closed a proffesional model maybe a hb9 or ...
Field report (F-close)
This weekend i f closed a proffesional model maybe a hb9 or 10. I used some pua stuff,story short I got her interested in me by pushing her away. The thing I want to write about anyway is why cant I be proud and happy about this??
I feel like I´ve cheated, using some kind of walkthrough for f closing. As if it was some weird version of myself, god its irritating, I want to take credit for it but feel I cant! cracy but right now its kind of depresing it worked, BLAAH!
The worst part is that I think Iam interested in more from her...she writes me back immediately every time I write but she never initiates a "text session"
Pretty confused now.........
Dude... what did you expect from learning all this stuff? What were your goals going into reading and learning all this PUA stuff?
I know that everyone gets interested in pick up for many different reasons. It sounds like you need to write down your goals and really find out why you are doing this. Are you trying to get with hot chicks? Get into a relationship? Get those F-closes? You need to work on your inner game.
Do you feel fake when you are using routines? Do you feel like it isn't you? Then don't use them. Use concepts from the stuff that you are learning, but maybe its the routines that make you feel like you are "cheating". The concepts help you build attraction, and thats what you did. It worked! Congrats on the f-close bro!
So you don't respect yourself in the morning? LOL
Step back, take a deep breath, and work on going out with this hottie some more times, if you are interested in more from her. Do activities that are genuine fun stuff you like to do, and see if you have a good time together. But shelve the outcome dependence. If it works out, great. But keep your periscope up to prevent one-itis.
If you're looking for a good LTR, there can be a definite downside to the quick F-close. From that point on, you're not sure you're compatible or just horny.
I think I understand kind of where you are coming from - I guess you feel as tho you 'had to put on an act' in order to get her interested rather than your 'literal-natural' self get her interested, if that makes sense, making it seem like you had to use some cheat method, pre-determined routines to get what you wanted....
Originally Posted by Enterpainment
It would feel much more valuable if you were able to do all this with the new 100% you - no double act