Ok, I met this girl at work, HB8. She works in the building next to me so we meet once in a while. Anyways, I´ve been talking to her and teased her and stuff like that. I´ve really tried to use the stuff I´ve learned.
Did she flirt with me for fun?
So HB8 has been sending me these IOIs, unless I´m completely off. You know, smiling when she sees me, locking onto my eyes and geting a big smile from nowhere. Talking to me and teasing me back. She gives me the impression of being interested yet not wanting to leave herself hanging. I figured she was just waiting for me to step up and go for it.
Though she has a boyfriend.
I asked her out today, not in a bad way, more casual with a reason. She responded with a big smile and "No, another time. I´ve got blablabla to do". Which is an obvious way to say no without hurting my feelings.
So I´m thinking... I can´t have misinterpreted her signals. I´m probably not thinking straight right now so I need some input from you guys:
1. Am I completely off, are these not IOIs?
2. Is she attracted to me but not enough to leave her boyfriend?
3. Is she flirting with me for fun but not seriously?
4. Is she interested in me but only as a friend?
Before you yell next, and one-itis, I have already decided to move on and aim for other girls. Though I want to learn from what I´ve been doing here.
Any input appreciated! Thanks!