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Ive done a lot of ...
Which mpua to follow, mystery, style, other mpua?
Ive done a lot of reading about pick up and am truly on my own journey of self improvement in all areas of my life, but with so many mpua's out there im really finding it hard to know which one is best, ie TMM, style's, AFC Adam's, and with soo many boot camps out there i feel like my head is going to explode, im so confused its getting me down. Also im from London so anyone from England with good advice on a boot camp or good mpua to follow would be great. Its like there is so much choice and hype about different masters I am unsure what to believe. I have read stuff from mystery, style, afc adam, juggler, gambler, david d, and loads loads more.
Thanks in advance
There is NO BEST mPUA.
There is a Method that suits you.
Hey it might be Mystery method, it might be RSD, or it can be Style's whatchmagonnacallit method.
either way find something you like. Experiment with few, see what sticks what doesn't.
The ghost of pua's past.
like Truestory said there is no best when it comes to your own personal journey.
Maybe Mystery is the best, maybe it's Sinn, or VinDicarlo or whoever but what does that mean for you and how does it apply to your lifestyle and personality?
Magic Bullets was a good and informative read for me but since I'm just a mod I'm not obligated to endorse anyone.
Remember what Style said "my goal was to learn from them all..." well if you tried that now you would exhaust yourself from all of the resources and from weeding out the crap from the substance but still try on different pants and see which one fits you.
Yeah, find a style that compliments you, but get out there and start using it... I was David Deangelo's, "Guy who has to read everything before he goes out and applies it," for 6 months; I absorbed none of it, because I wasn't exercising them muscles... Now, that I do approach, it's almost like the past 6 months of study hadn't occurred, I make mistakes practicing the principles I've read hundred's of times...
Thats a very good point, although I have been out and been pushed into sets, no where near as often as I should, I have a really good understanding of game theory, i can tell you about attraction switches, how to dhv, cocky funny lines, loads of different openers, push pull, negs, posture and body language , ioi and soi and all that stuff, but I cant get it out of my brain when I want to use it but can easily see what someone else should be doing and give advice, and today i just couldnt approach anyone, totally avoided it, not sure how i can kick my sorry arse into gear, anyone good in London I can learn from in the field? I guess if this was easy then everyone would be a master!
Originally Posted by livershop
Do what bruce lee did when he created his style. Study many, takes what works for you and forget the rest