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    Want to get in touch with HB again

    Ok, here's the story: there's this HB I met a few months ago through friends. We have eacht others numbers, have e-mailed and texted bullshitting etc. Haven't really 'gamed' her, as she had a boyfriend, but I've felt there's some tension between us. For some reason or another we lost contact, not going to the same places etc. anymore. Last week I met a friend of hers who told me she was single again. So I thought: why not give it a try? But what to do from here, as I only have her number, we haven't spoken to each other in ages and I really don't know her that well, so it might seem a bit awkward if I suggest getting together doing something. Any ideas?



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    Text her who is this and why are you in my phone. Or text her and go which jennifer (or whatever her name is this). Go you're listed as jennifer #5. Go from there
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    Unfortunately that wouldn't work, because her name is really unique. I just like to find a way to find a way to get together with her again without making it weird.

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    Go out with said mutual friend, and tell her to bring her hot friends along.

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    That's the problem: our mutual friend left to another country, so all we have now is each other's numbers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snake32 View Post
    Unfortunately that wouldn't work, because her name is really unique. I just like to find a way to find a way to get together with her again without making it weird.
    Who is this and why are you in my phone wont work? Have you tried it? You will continue to struggle in this came when people who are authority figures give you advice and you dont try it. All cool though, you do you do baby
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fader View Post
    Who is this and why are you in my phone wont work? Have you tried it? You will continue to struggle in this came when people who are authority figures give you advice and you dont try it. All cool though, you do you do baby
    I know you mean well, but I told you, no one else has the same name, believe me, she knows it and I know it. Besides, I've been using a nickname for her in the past, so such text would really come off weird in this situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snake32 View Post
    I know you mean well, but I told you, no one else has the same name, believe me, she knows it and I know it. Besides, I've been using a nickname for her in the past, so such text would really come off weird in this situation.
    dude, does she know you have HER name on your phone? how does she know you just dont have her number and not her name?

    How does she know you havent forgotten who she is?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snake32 View Post
    I know you mean well, but I told you, no one else has the same name, believe me, she knows it and I know it. Besides, I've been using a nickname for her in the past, so such text would really come off weird in this situation.
    "Who is this and why are you in my phone?" has NOTHING to do with the commonality of her name. It doesn't matter. The point is to get her to text back. You could also try "OMG... I just met your twin. I think I met the good one, though..." or something along those lines, but I'd go with what Fader said. He knows his shit. You would do well to heed his words...
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    Forget it you two. He clearly has inner game issues. His lack of willingness to apply the technique(s) I suggested is just the symptom of a larger issue.
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