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    yeah so, wana invite a girl over to my place to bang, her, she has been asking me questions such as how long i am, if im good in bed, if im single etc. (im no psychologist but i think she may want me). Now i COULD ask her over for drinks, but that seems a little tactless, what would you guys say?


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    Quote Originally Posted by FCAdam View Post
    ........ she has been asking me questions such as how long i am, if im good in bed, if im single etc. ......


    so she's been (pre)qaulifying you like a you're a little girl, and, presumably you've been answering her questions and jumping through her hoops ...

    instead of taking over the frame like

    Her strong frame:
    HB : "How long are you..."
    PUA: "wouldn't you like to know...*intro-new-topic* how big are your tits!?"

    Her strong frame:
    HB: "so are you good in bed?"
    PUA: " *mockingly* No, I completely horrible ...WTF? Can you give a good blow job!?"

    Her strong frame:
    HB: "sooo.. are you single"
    PUA: "Does it really matter? I don't ask you if you're single. Boyfriends are like colds, you catch one once in a while....what are you doing tonight?"
    HB: "haha.. i dunno"
    PUA: "come over here, you can cook me dinner and don't forget to bring some wine. If you're lucky i might have answers to your questions, but no funny business.... I have to wakeup early tomorrow!"
    The ghost of pua's past.

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    oh and a rule of thumb:

    "if she wants to bang you, just give her a chance and make it look like it was your initiative"
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    uh no i havent been jumping through hoops actually thanks

    its called the question game, i was getting her right back
    Cheers, FCAdam

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    Quote Originally Posted by FCAdam View Post
    uh no i havent been jumping through hoops actually thanks

    its called the question game, i was getting her right back
    post your conversation.....
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    this will be long and it was over msn, granted for some reason she took it that i wanted her to ask 5 questions at once for some reason lol, but whatever here goes:

    Her:
    where are you from?
    whats your favorite kind of music?
    are you a virgin [doubt it]?
    how many girls have you been with?
    what would you want to do with me if you could do anything?

    your turn..


    Me:
    ooh ill make this interesting for you
    Answers:
    1) Canada, 7th generation with some Scottish and English mixed in for good measure
    2) My favourite kind of music, well ill listen to anything if i like it, but i like rock and house the best, guitar is my favorite instrument by far.
    3) You answered that one yourself
    4) I can count it on 2 hands
    5) Something you can find out if you hang out with me sometime

    Now for the questions (thanks for taking the good ones :P):
    1) Whats your favorite drink (if you say apple juice just stop here)?
    2) Whats your favorite sport?
    3) How old are you?
    4) Are you a good kisser?
    5) How badly do you want me?

    Her:
    whiskey.. i like the burn
    football
    16
    i have been told i am
    not to badly... its not like you're my only option :P

    1. have you ever been to a concert
    2. are you good in bed
    3. have you ever had a three some
    4. do you have any pets
    5. are you single at the moment


    Me:
    Im certain im one of the best options in any case
    1) Actually... no i havent, my ive had enough chances but my plans would always get messed around
    2) When it comes to a question like that, my actions speak much louder than my words ever could. Not trying to seem conceited haha.
    3) No missy i have not, its not exactly something that comes up very often lol
    4) Dog and a cat at the moment, used to have a Siamese fighting fish, crab, and hamster too (at different times). Pets are awesome I couldnt live without them.
    5) Currently? Sure, why not :P



    Her
    lol nice response to the are you single quesion :P

    question **


    Me:
    1) Whats your favourite band?
    2) Whats your favourite kind of movie
    3) Do you like going clubbing?
    4) Have you had sex on the dance floor? (if you know how I mean that)
    5) What would you say your favourite position is

    Her
    either Goo Goo Doll or Blink 182
    scarry/horror
    not old enough its gay
    umm ^^
    nothing to special.. i just like being on top and in control if you know what i mean

    1. do you speak any other languages
    2. would you be afraid to be blunt and ask for what you what
    3. how long's your cock
    4. what was the last movie you saw in theaters
    5. have you ever fucked in a movie theater


    Me:
    1) English is my only language.
    2) It all really depends on the situation. I could say 100% yes, but i might be lieing.
    3) Well, i could go about conceitedly telling you about how I'm a monster, but I'm sure you've heard that one a million times. :P Again, some things speak louder than my words ever could. All you need to know is I'm not lacking.
    4) Last movie... Sweeney Todd :P I hate musicals.. dunno why I saw that one
    5) Missy, can't say i ever have. But i can definitely consider placing that on my to-Do list. haha

    1) Where do you like it the most when a man feels you up?
    2) Whats the wierdest place you have ever had sex?
    3) How many BFs have you had in the last year?
    4) Whats something youre really proud of?
    5) What're your thoughts on serious relationships?

    Her:
    i like when a guy as some fun with my boobs
    my aunts camper-trailer
    two
    proud of in what kind of a sense?
    im not ready for one.. i like having fun
    Cheers, FCAdam

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    dude she's a little kid, you're 18 what are you doing talking to a minor?


    besides, she owned you towards the end, you're qualifying yourself ... ...notice how

    hers sound like statements, yours like excuses.

    how old are you again?
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    My last girlfriend was the same age... yes im 18... however, you are completely right, im going to cut her off

    apologies if i came across as rude
    Cheers, FCAdam

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    Quote Originally Posted by FCAdam View Post
    My last girlfriend was the same age... yes im 18... however, you are completely right, im going to cut her off

    apologies if i came across as rude

    ?? is it legal? i don't knwo the law.

    Let's assume it is:

    don't cut her off... re-frame her. You can still fuck her, but take the lead. It might not be too late.

    but like she said, she has other options, you should too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FCAdam View Post
    yeah so, wana invite a girl over to my place to bang, her, she has been asking me questions such as how long i am, if im good in bed, if im single etc. (im no psychologist but i think she may want me). Now i COULD ask her over for drinks, but that seems a little tactless, what would you guys say?
    Tactless, how?

    How direct you feel you can be is going to depend on exactly how confident you are that she knows she wants it. You'd be surprised how overt you can be when everybody knows that it's all about sex.

    (I continue to be surprised by it, quite frankly, I always feel like I need more pretext than I do. This is one of those lessons that, for me, is taking forever to sink in.)

    But I'd use a little more pretext than you're using. Maybe invite her over to watch a DVD. (Be specific: "Hey, I just got ... <blank>"). If she's really into you, it almost won't matter what movie you mention (although have a backup movie just in case). Don't be in any hurry to put the movie on when she comes over. Remember: it's a pretext.

    Have some good chick crack available for when she comes over.

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