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    eye contact IoI???

    hey guys, its just a quick question. When I'm talking to a girl, and I look at her eyes (I always do), and she looks somewhere else as she's talking to me, Is that a sign of insecurity or IoI? and if it is an IoI, how can I use this to my advantage?

    Thanks guys, i would appreciate any answers you have.


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    You know, this actually happens quite a bit in everyday interactions. The person speaking makes much less eye contact than the person being spoken too. I'm not sure that you should take this behavior too much to heart, but I'll admit that I am no where near an expert.

    Does anyone else want to weigh in on this?

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    Yeah I notice this as well. I do it when I am telling a story sometimes and I have to remind myself to keep the contact. Your eyes move around alot when you are recalling memories.
    I do make sure to keep it as much as possible when I am the one talking though. It seems to keep them much more interested.

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    If any female looks away from you its an IoD...if they do this when you are talking to em, it means they are looking for someone they "know" so they can get rid of you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vulture629 View Post
    If any female looks away from you its an IoD...if they do this when you are talking to em, it means they are looking for someone they "know" so they can get rid of you.
    so if this is a IoD, then should I DHV or should I neg her, should I do a combination of both, or simply leave the scene?
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    Do a search on Eye Contact. There is a lot of information available. I personally like the article written by miaddict.

    The Fuss About Eye Contact
    http://www.theattractionforums.com/f...ht=eye+contact

    This link should answer your question. Hope its helpful.

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    naujitii, has she earned your eye contact yet? :P
    i think i used to have to same problem, i had to learn to have a warm open look on my face, i mean: using constant eyecontact is unnatural, though its alpha you need to break it once in a while. i work with a guy who totally stares when you talk to him.... its friggin creepy. like, "heres johnny" creepy lol
    her- im cold
    me- well im nice and warm, i dont know what your doing :P

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    True... well one thing I do, that maybe has actually worked for me, is to look at a girl directly at her eyes from the distance, and then look away like she is not the brightest thing in the place. I don't know If I'm correct but correct me If im wrong, but this triggers attractions on HB 8-10s because they are expected to be looked on by guys all the time and by doing this trick that I just wrote right now she starts to think "why is this guy not looking at me? Am I not that attractive for him?..... you see where I'm going with this.
    I am no expert at the game or PUA, or at least not yet, but I heard this trick and some girls I've noticed looked back at me.

    One theory that I also have is to use eye contact, or should I say "Eye language," to portray attitude. This could be useful during shit tests. because it adds up to your speaking tone and body language while portraying attitude and sometimes authority.

    Thanks for your advice as well, one of the things I love about this forum
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    Quote Originally Posted by naujitii View Post
    True... well one thing I do, that maybe has actually worked for me, is to look at a girl directly at her eyes from the distance, and then look away like she is not the brightest thing in the place. I don't know If I'm correct but correct me If im wrong, but this triggers attractions on HB 8-10s because they are expected to be looked on by guys all the time and by doing this trick that I just wrote right now she starts to think "why is this guy not looking at me? Am I not that attractive for him?..... you see where I'm going with this.
    I think it depends on who was looking at who first. If she looks up, and sees you looking into her eyes (even for 1 second), then she knows you noticed her. This gives her validation that you know she exists. To a hot girl, you already blew the opener, you might as well just go direct.

    Now switch it. If you look up and she is looking into your eyes, then you look away while she is still looking at you, then thats a great way to IOD her. Cuz then its flipped around. She has shown more interest then you have... (this doesn't mean she is interested in you, it just means that she is more invested in this so far).

    make sense? Agree? disagree?

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    Quote Originally Posted by bjswift View Post
    I think it depends on who was looking at who first. If she looks up, and sees you looking into her eyes (even for 1 second), then she knows you noticed her. This gives her validation that you know she exists. To a hot girl, you already blew the opener, you might as well just go direct.

    Now switch it. If you look up and she is looking into your eyes, then you look away while she is still looking at you, then thats a great way to IOD her. Cuz then its flipped around. She has shown more interest then you have... (this doesn't mean she is interested in you, it just means that she is more invested in this so far).

    make sense? Agree? disagree?
    yeah, my idea is to break eye contact with her before she does.
    (attitude) women love to give it and they love to take it.
    -Payton Kane.

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