"We'll go out to smoke" line to get rid of me?

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    "We'll go out to smoke" line to get rid of me?

    Yesterday night i met one 2 set of cute Italian girls. I need your opinion on our interaction.

    first of all I need to note this german guy i knew asked the one girl before opening them whether she spoke English and she answer no, and a sec later said "a little" (IOD right?)

    Later these 2 girls walked next to me and stopped by me facing each other. I immediately opened them (because i was talking to other sets earlier in the night thanks to this German guy, that obviously knew about pua staff and he told me he was trained years ago by a friend, who basically was the one opening in the beginning of the night and me entering the convo later, helping me reducing my AA).

    The convo with the 2 set:

    me: Do you speak English? (told them in Italian, the rest of the convo was in English)
    them: yea
    me: I think you are cute so i want to meet you
    (they giggled)
    me: I immediately introduce myself telling them i am Greek and that my Italian are poor
    them: Its ok you can talk to us in English (IOI? they told the guy before that they didnt spoke a lot of English)
    me: I then told them rly briefly that i was in Italy to learn the language
    them: I dont remember their exact response but at the time they told me that they was going outside for a cigarette. So they left.

    The convo lasted for only 2-4 min

    During the whole convo they were both smiling at me and i could see how excited they were for me going direct. Also, it was rly hot in the club, thus going outside, which is cooler, is a reasonable thing to do in my opinion.

    after half an hour my friends were going to leave so i left too. The club was too small, so there was almost no chance not seeing them coming back into the club, but when i went outside they was not there =/

    what was the right thing to do?
    - stay more time at the club expecting that they would come back at a point?
    - should have invited myself to go outside with them? (I didnt because i wasnt sure if they rly liked my company or were just nice to me, i am still a beginner!, and i expected them to come back)

    I am open to any criticism etc etc!



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    It's an IOD. If they wanted to keep talking to you, they would invite you to go outside with them. Best thing you can do is approach other girls and not wait around for them.

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    IF this was me in the same sitch i would have after develping repor, started talking early about a venue change. Put it in there mind this change and switch if you can to talking about how great one place is in english and how great the after party at ur house is in there native toung. reasions being english they spoke to you as a IOI thus the new club you go to subconsiously is of great intrest to you and them. talking about your house after party in there native toung to there sub mind would stay saftey and sacurity hence thats that they have grown to know and feel confertable with. yes there is alot of spelling erros on this thank the iphone and the stupid key bad so rather then flaming just take the info for what its worth and a idea.. lastley in the end they would of had more of a idea of venue change and 2nd and 3rd date after 10 mins of talking and how cool u are because u know of all these other places to party and have fun social proofing

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheRogue View Post
    It's an IOD. If they wanted to keep talking to you, they would invite you to go outside with them. Best thing you can do is approach other girls and not wait around for them.

    Rogue
    Thanks for the review, but its still possible that some women like to play it hard on you right? what i want to say is that it could be an IOD but it could be neither an IOD/IOI? For example, in case that i saw them in the same night again, or if i see them in a future night, I should persist on gaming them? As long as they laugh there is not problem right?

    If i said at the time, "its too hot in here, i need some air, you mind if i come with you guys" would be a turn-off or something?

    Quote Originally Posted by Cassanova11c View Post
    IF this was me in the same sitch i would have after develping repor, started talking early about a venue change. Put it in there mind this change and switch if you can to talking about how great one place is in english and how great the after party at ur house is in there native toung. reasions being english they spoke to you as a IOI thus the new club you go to subconsiously is of great intrest to you and them. talking about your house after party in there native toung to there sub mind would stay saftey and sacurity hence thats that they have grown to know and feel confertable with. yes there is alot of spelling erros on this thank the iphone and the stupid key bad so rather then flaming just take the info for what its worth and a idea.. lastley in the end they would of had more of a idea of venue change and 2nd and 3rd date after 10 mins of talking and how cool u are because u know of all these other places to party and have fun social proofing
    I didnt flame at all casanova, but i am having a bit of a hard time understanding what you say. What you recommend is basically talking about possible venues to have fun in Florence and suggesting to go to one of those venues (bouncing them)?

    Which seems to be a hard thing for me to do at the time because i only talked to them for 2 min and they were the ones that left me.

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