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    Trust me, she doesn't care.

    Also, pleeze try to rite in standard English so peeple wil more eezily reed what ur writing.

    kthnxbai!


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    Alright updates

    After thinking long and no contact for 2 weeks since the time she suddenly stopped replying I decided to just cover myself and ask if we are still meeting for lunch just so that she won't have the chance of thinking that it was me who did not want to meet

    So on the day 1 and 1/2 hr before usual lunch time I messaged her asking if lunch is still on

    Me : hey are we still meeting?
    her: hey I was just about to message you... Today there's are lot of issues at work and meetings. I think I will have to buy back lunch and eat at my desk. How about thurs? Are you free for lunch n thurs?
    Me: no worries
    Me: hmmm thur ... Guess we shall just play it by ear caus I might be busy or may not be busy depending on how work is that day
    Her: I'm sorry... If you are you are unable to meet on thurs we can meet dinner somedaay instead
    Me: yup yup can also
    Me: No worries!
    me: Have a good day ahead!

    And she stopped replying... Now I'm feeling as though I made her feel as if I think that she flaked and am not keen on meeting again since I din suggest any date for dinner and just gave a generic yup reply and ended the convosation

    Another part of me wonders, what if she was really so busy at work and she was actually telling the truth... In that case wouldn't she be pissed of at my suspicions of her flaking even though I did of directly mention anything about it

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    Um... What happened to you using deadeyedicks response?

    You just made yourself look like a little bitch again. Now you have no opportunity to take back your manhood.

    hey are we still meeting?
    Why did you send that? You where basically trying to confirm plans?

    Dude, you had it... You had the attitude "Fuck her, I am my own man, Do what is good for me, and dont be a bitch"

    then you took that attitude, along with your balls, and threw them off a bridge when you sent that message.
    She has no intention of getting dinner with you, or lunch.. Infact, if you had organised lunch again, she most like would have bailed.


    STOP TEXTING THIS GIRL SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU


    ^Print that out, stick it on your door, and read it EVERY SINGLE FUCKING DAY. She doesnt give a shit about you, and is just using you for validation, attention, and to cure her bordom.

    Why even bother posting on here if you are just going to ignore it and act like a bitch?
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    Rip off your own dick and give it to some Asian guy cause you obviously don't need it. Sorry I'm having a bad day so excuse the images.

    You must understand:
    She wasn't "just" about to text you.
    She really has nothing to do on thursday.
    Anything that will come up on Thursday will replace your meeting.
    She isn't sorry, "someday" means never.

    Sending 3 texts in a row especially with "have a good day ahead" tells her you're softer than baby shit.

    Not flaming, it's tough brotherly love.

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    Your making excuses to contact her and for her behaviour, your worried about being polite all the time to girl who acts like she doesn't care at all!

    Your worried incase she thinks u were rude, u worry incase she thinks u flaked and you worry about if everything she says has a different meaning! During all this time she's rude to you (ignoring) she flakes (lunch) I'd suggest move on ASAP!

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    OP: The reason the other posters are being so direct is that you seem to have a blind
    spot -- she's not really doing anything to show she's interested in you, yet you're
    viewing almost anything she replies in a hopeful way.

    This is frustrating for me and others to read because those little wisps of
    what seem to you like interest are shrouded in layers of her being disrespectful
    to you and treating you like you are a chump.

    At this point, as well, you asked for advice initially and got feedback that was
    unanimous: move on to other women.

    Instead, you became worried again about what she might think of you
    and you supplicated again.

    Even now, you're concerned about what message she may have received.

    She doesn't care what you think and is simply playing games with you,
    but that's hard for you to see or believe.

    It's hard to diagnose why this is happening based on this one instance,
    and my own opinion is that you may not feel good enough about yourself
    right now to stop contacting a woman who is treating you the way she is.

    Consider a bootcamp or one-on-one help with someone who can take
    more time to help you figure out (a) why you're possibly miss-reading
    situations, and (b) how to improve your own self-esteem so you no longer
    accept second class behavior from women.
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    At the risk of flogging a dead horse, you had a solid gold option and totally ignored it. If there was any chance of turning things around it hinged on sending the "I have to cancel lunch" message and promptly forgetting about her.

    One of the reasons to stay away from rude disrespectful girls is whether you like it or not over time you will grow attached to them, delete her phone number.

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    welll...

    this week out of the blue she messaged me to make conversation and ask if im keen on going for a trip next year (with a bunch of her friends)

    den she also said lets meet for drinks last week of this month

    i told her, last week of august is too far ahead for me to confirm now ... why don;t you just plan nearer the date when it comes and if im still free at that point of time we'll meet

    was my response loserish?

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    Yes... Honestly... Do you actually read the responses on here?

    Why even bother posting on here, when you completely ignore all the advice that is literally canonballing you in the fuck face?

    DO NOT FUCKING WRITE BACK TO HER!

    She wont meet up with you for drinks, she doesnt want you to go on a trip with her and her friends. She is fucking bored and sends you a fucking message.

    SHE
    DOES
    NOT
    FUCKING
    CARE
    ABOUT
    YOU

    Her contact name in your phone should be "THIS GIRL DOESNT CARE ABOUT ME DONT BE A BITCH AND IGNORE HER"



    She will flake, you will sook, and post again.

    Move on dude. Seriously, its pathetic that you keep having little sparks of hope.


    I do this all the time. You get bored, and message a girl to see what she is doing etc, possibly make some plans incase you have literally NOTHING to do one night and feel like socialising. It gives you a bit of a kick, and a bit of confidence knowing that someone wants to see you etc, etc.... Doesnt mean I actually want to see that person, or have any ambition to go for a fucking drink with them. It just means I am bored at that time and they will entertain me until the girl I actually want to speak to messages/calls...

    Grow some balls... It is seriously pathetic what you are doing.
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