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    Shady Girlfriend...

    Hey all,

    So I've been seeing this girl for going on 9 months now and we thought we'd take it a step further last month. So she's been officially my girlfriend for like 1 month now. Lastnight she was over and this morning I had to make an appointment I had so I told her to just lock my apartment door behind you when she leaves (I took my keys). She said ok... I just get home 8:00pm, check email and decided to check my Facebook. However, it was in her Facebook. I probably should of logged out but decided to snoop around "I know i'm a dick for doing this". Anyway, I see a message from some guy in June saying hey did you get my text, she says yes did you get mine. He says Babe I miss you and I'm in NJ, when will you come see me. That message was on June 28. I'm not sure if I should ignore this or or not but If I mention it I'm fucked. How would you all deal with this situation. BTW she didn't respond to the message on Facebook.



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    So it was right before you got together? I mean the girl has put up with not being exclusive for several months, you really think she's gonna blow it now? She probably ignored it. Think, what do most girls do to you when uninterested? Ignore you. She could have been seeing this guy before you were exclusive and cut it when you got serious. Which is also totally fine because you weren't together. So you can't really be too upset.

    This is when trust factors in. You have no reason to not trust her, but you violated her privacy. She obviously wasn't concerned since she didnt log it out. Since you violated it, you're now insecure about something that is probably nothing, but you can't ask because it was wrong in the first place. Yeah you have no room to act here man. If you can never trust her then you shouldn't be with her.

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    And change the title to shady boyfriend. Lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by warrior504th View Post
    And change the title to shady boyfriend. Lol.

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    Lol, yea your right.

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    Do what we do in Brooklyn: Fuggedaboudit. She didn't respond to his message, and she may have left it on to see what you'd do. And you've got plenty of time to win her or see what she does.
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    She probably text back! I would scrap your exclusivity if it didn't work when you weren't exclusive his guy is probably still texting her and on your side you've agreed to be exclusive I'm assuming and stopped meeting chicks

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    Quote Originally Posted by cman View Post
    She probably text back! I would scrap your exclusivity if it didn't work when you weren't exclusive his guy is probably still texting her and on your side you've agreed to be exclusive I'm assuming and stopped meeting chicks
    Yea I did actually.

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    If "you know what" is the oldest profession then Spying would have to be the second oldest profession.

    Nothing wrong with spying except getting caught which could see your head on a youtube clip with a black hood over it.

    While I have the skills to spy on girlfriends I choose not to because if it ever gets that far I should have dumped her long before.

    Naturally there will always be things you learn which you shouldn't, even without trying and at those times you have to just man up and deal with it.

    As a funny side note though, a few years back I had a girl start seeing guys pseudo behind my back. She was using seeing other guys as black mail to try and make me go over to her house more and playing the old "if you don't come over and fuck me now I'll find someone else so it's your fault card"......What I did was save this dudes photo on my phone linked to her name so every time she rang I saw his face. Needless to say, I got over that girl pretty quick.

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