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    Opener for someone who is smoking

    So I want to find a good opener to approach someone who is smoking. I was hoping for a way to complain about smoking while still attracting the woman.



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    Learn the sleight of hand trick for cigarettes. Good way to socialize with a group with a smoker... But perhaps not an opener. I haven't mastered it yet.

    Be careful with a neg. Be the exception. Everyone tells them they're too pretty to smoke, smoking kills blah blah.

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    Whatever you do - Dont come off with the "You know smoking is bad for you"... That shit will annoy girls - every AFC does it, and honestly, they dont want to be lectured while they are out having a good time.

    There was a thread on here a few days ago that came out with a few good openers regarding smokers...

    Questions on Openers

    Not great (I remembered it better than it was, lol) but can give you a starting point at least.

    How about you throw some openers you thought of up, and see what everyone thinks. That way you can judge what is better/worse and how you can tailor your words/phrases to increase your chances with women.
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    Functional Opener - ask for a light, transition
    Situational - humorously lecture her, while smoking.

    The Opener is fuck all. You can use "hi" as an opener. What's important is what you say after. You'll want to shake her hand and introduce yourself and have at least one conversation thread and cold read to fire off.

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    Humor/surprise:
    Get an electric cigarette. Ask for a light, lean in, and click it on so it lights up. Get one that has a weird color like blue or green, then just say "thanks!"

    Take it from there.

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    From there you could joke about how you tried to be more healthy by using e cigs, but read online that they release toxins that can he even more dangerous...

    But... (Price/stylish/light at the end is so pretty/etc)

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    Thanks guys. I was thinking I should ignore the smoking and go about it differently. I was thinking I'd open with "Hey, can I get your help on something?", put hand on arm, "Do I look like a drug dealer? 'Cuz these 2 girls just came up to me and were like [put arm around her neck] "Do you have any weed?", all sexual." Then continue on and neg by asking if that's her real hair colour and saying she spit on my face while she was talking. It's something I saw Cajun on keys to the vip use. What do you guys think?

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    Quote Originally Posted by warrior504th View Post
    Humor/surprise:
    Get an electric cigarette. Ask for a light, lean in, and click it on so it lights up. Get one that has a weird color like blue or green, then just say "thanks!"

    Take it from there.

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    haha that is a great opener, I'm gonna have to try that

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    Quote Originally Posted by ryukoshu View Post
    Thanks guys. I was thinking I should ignore the smoking and go about it differently. I was thinking I'd open with "Hey, can I get your help on something?", put hand on arm, "Do I look like a drug dealer? 'Cuz these 2 girls just came up to me and were like [put arm around her neck] "Do you have any weed?", all sexual." Then continue on and neg by asking if that's her real hair colour and saying she spit on my face while she was talking. It's something I saw Cajun on keys to the vip use. What do you guys think?
    First of all, its opinion not help, it'll flow better.

    Second, wayyyyy too physical way too fast. Do a creepy touch to help her immerse in your story about them being creepy, and do a hard drug imo. Then slowly ramp.

    If she responds highly enthusiastic you may pull off that much contact. But it seems way too obvious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ryukoshu View Post
    So I want to find a good opener to approach someone who is smoking. I was hoping for a way to complain about smoking while still attracting the woman.
    man
    u can't do those three at the same time
    1)do not complain,it ll make her defensive against you
    2)open with a comment,or even direct
    3)not worry about attraction from the opener,open her first,talk a little while,then attract her


    cheers

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